a revelation
by Disclaimer: all of the following applies to worldly people, not christians.
There's been some talk on here about a double standard of how when a guy sleeps with a lot of girls, that's marked as an acheivement, but when a girl sleeps with a lot of guys, she is labeled as a slut. Well, ladies and gentlemen, I have discovered the answer, and actually it's really pretty obvious.
The simple fact of the matter is, that its really easy for girls to get guys, whereas a guy really has to work to get a girl. Now before you girls start tearing me up, let me explain. It's true. If a girl gets prettied up and goes to a bar, a guy will buy her a drink. Basically any random girl can get any random guy. However, if a guy gets all suaved up and goes to a bar, chances are, no girls will approach him, even if they do find him attractive. That's just the way things are.
The second, but less important, fact of the matter is that guys have much lower standards than girls in general. I would venture to guess that a higher percentage of guys would just go to a bar to hook up with any girl. I think that, in general but not as a rule, hold to higher standards when it comes to the opposite sex.
So that's why, when a guy gets lots of girls he is labeled a pimp, but when a girl gets lots of guys, she is labeled a slut.
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yeah, this is all truth....why cant things be evened out?...why can't we live in a culture where both guys AND girls to do an equal share of pursuing...the burden shouldnt just be the guy's
in Chris Rock's Bigger and Blacker he address this similarly. good work.
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yup... i've known this for a long time. Girls have the key to sex. They are told growing up .. they have a special place and no one should go near it. if 10 guys walk into a bar looking for 'relations' on the first night.. 1 will get it... if 10 girls walking into a bar looking for 'relations' ... 9 will get it. it's proven. i studied this.
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anyway. i agree with the fact that it's less work for a girl to get a guy than the other way around. AT TIMES. See, guys are always trying to impress - cars, nice clothes, etc.
However - I personally think girls have lower standards than guys do. Girls say "ohh...so he has a spare tire...it's CUTE!" whereas guys are like..."yo did you see the fat coming over the top of her jeans?? that was NASTY!" or "i saw her without makeup, WOOF!", and so on.
Witnesses...is a whole other story.
well, in general J-dubs are better looking than worldies cuz they take better care of themselves (usually). less drinking, no drugs, no STDs, etc.
but my point is, like tai said, that 10 guys walk into a bar looking to hook up, 1 will. 10 girls walk into a bar looking to hook up, 9 will.
what are you talking about? Spare tires are "cute"...i hadn't been informed. I don't agree...i only call guys cute, if they ARE cute.
Oh man! I read that wrong. I thought initially Dan said oh he has spare TIME!!! I was thinking to myself, "Daniel, that made absolutely no sense at all."
that's true but I think that girls would be more willing to love the guy for what he is on the inside, while guys are more about the outside. I duno, just my opinion. That's what I heard anyway. You see more hot girls with ugly guys than the other way around. And of course, 'ugly' is in the mind of the beholder... Angelina Jolie thought Billy Bob was the sexiest man alive. Ugh. That's love.
true... i mean you'd never see brad pitt with rosie o'donnell. there's a reason she's lesbian.