Boys, a waste of time?
by When I was out in service with my "older brothers", as a young girl, they used to outline to me what a guy should be like. They listed qualities and actions that, if a guy didn't do/have, he was a waste of time.
1) Always make sure you walk on the inside of the road.
2) Offer their seat if you are left standing.
3) Open the door for you, or any other woman.
anyone got any other good ones?
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If a guy flirts with other girls in front of you he doesn't respect you.
Or if he acts one way when you are alone and completely non-chalantly when you are together - he doesn't really love you.
My guy friends always told me that.
someone needs to drill this into my head =(
i'll be over with my bob vela special edition common sense drill tonight!!!!!
hahah spank you
I think the one about standing on the outside is outdated. It was from the old days when a guy had to stand on the outside so if someone from the window above threw poop or other stuff out the window they woman wouldn't get hit.
It can still apply in the rain to puddles and just in general to being careful...
i don't even pay attention to what side bri is standing on. that requirement seems like nitpicking to me.
I agree boys area waste of time thats why i like girls.
I hate when a gil says that she's never had someone be nice to her, then takes advantage of your niceties...
Kinda like playing a guy because he'll treat you nice and be good to you, and dote all over you because he's crazy about you, even though you have NO intention of dating him or whatever?
Yeah, I hate that too.
It's nice when a guy takes the initiative to do something thoughtful without the girl having to hint. Suprises rock.
i think the operative word here is boys.
on a cold wintery night, throw her pajamas in the dryer so they are nice and warm right before she gets out of the shower...and pinch her
Well you started off strong, yet somehow you always manage to derail.
hey now, didn't want her to think she was dreaming.
The element of suprise, always keep your woman guessing.
Like when cooks a good meal... rather then saying "Yummy"... I say TACKLE HER
haha, yeah, you're definately gona make some woman really happy one day..while simultaneously confusing the heck outa her, lol
ha ha
isn't that the point.. to confuse the heck out of her.. so she goes to bed thinking every night " does he love me ? or not , i dont know but i will continue to serve him and take care of all his needs until i find out ". game over.
ty, this is why i want to be your wife
i REALLY, REALLY want to be ty's official video biographer.
number 1 - it'd be really boring during the hours of 9am-5pm every monday thru tuesday. However i'm changing that soon. number 2 - it'd definately be more boring during the hours of 5.01pm-8.59am everyday. number 3 - it'd definately be rated nc-17 because there will be more nude scenes then any type of girl going wild.
when would the nekid time occur?? it's hard to video tape something that boring.
and you are why i sleep with a smile
my dad gave me these
1) if he squashes a bug you are afraid of and only slightly mocks you for it.
2)tells you when you have spinach in your teeth.
3)will dance at least one song with you, even when he hates to dance. but then again never get a guy who hates to dance when you love it.
I think it's nice when a guy runs out in the rain to pull the car up close so the girl doesn't have to get wet. Specially with someone like me, I hate fussing with umbrellas.
there was some young brothers in our hall that did this and helped girls out to their cars in the ice and snow while spreading the salt. it was sweet.
There is a little boy I bribe with quarters to clean off snow for my car. If he was old enough to drive, I'd give him a quarter to pull my car up to the door.
i remember when i was so excited to run out in the snow and rain so i could turn my mom's and dads car on for them so it would warm up.
You're going to form a complex in this childs mind that will make him think he's worth nothing more than a quarter..20 years from now, he's going to be working in a Viatnamese sweat shop, for 25cents an hour, and you, you will be the reason
HAHAHAHA...well at least his parents are filthy rich.
Someone sbould teach my ben about this..it would be very helpfull.
heh. maybe you could drop lil hints. some guy's minds don't function that way. you gotta say, LOOK--if you really love me, then you won't have me doing anything unpleasant when you could have an ounce of chivalry and give me a hand. tell him he should WANT to. he'll fall in line. OR he'll think your a helpless nag and dump you for one of thai's flight attendant heroin mules.
wellll.... oh my that was quite a pleasant thought.
It's even more unpleasant for the girl who is dating him. Looks like I won't be dropping any subtle hints.
It really didn't bother me that much after I read this part of my sociology book about how if women want to stop being treated as they are depicted in that picture ian posted then they have to stop acting inferior.
yes its true. cuz women are independant in many things but when asked they want a guy to take care of them. or (i know this was mentioned somewhere else) how the guy is still expected to ask the girls out cuz its their place. women still act inferior.
May 13th 1955, was a good date.
uh oh... misreplied
Girls, a waste of time?
I think not!
Yes : A good wife always knows her place.
& that is to keep her man in check! :)
Oh my goodness, I can't believe ppl actually thought this was the way to go... "his topics of conversation are more important than yours"!!??
"be a little gay and more interesting for him"...yes, that would be interesting. in a disgusting way.
Be gay and put a ribbon in your hair...
gay meant happy in the 50's
I think that's printed on my toilet paper. (translation - i wipe my poopies in this despicableness!)
Hey how come shes not barefoot!!
cuz she's wearing stilleto heels..
she should be barefoot in the kitchen making cheddar grits
now we KNOW you definitely lived with Milt. Grits rock.
thin ice, toots. thin ice.
ive always loved how it says "prepare the children" what are they...chicken??
wash dishes without asking...and WITHOUT mentioning it (i.e. hey, honey...I'LL do the dishes tonight); just DO them
Other key qualities:
Makes the idea of him wanting to spend more time w/you than his friends, at the very least, convincing.
Will watch a "chick flick" w/you w/out complaining about the lack of explosions and carnage.
uhh, yeah that's all I can think of for now
My mom always said if a boy grabs you by the elbow he's going to be controlling and abusive. Haha. I still to this day do not let boys grab my elbows. Ever. I hurt them when they try to.
Yes, non-abusiveness is definately a quality to look for in guys,lol, nothing will screw up a relationship more than constant beatings....haha, & on this subject, I was watching one of those sleazy talk shows the other day, & they subject of the episode was "Women Who Beat Their Men"..I was DYING laughing
yeah, i always heard that too. I knew this guy who constantly grabbed me by the elbow...i swear he's going to be a wife beater. Ever since he grabbed me by both elbows and wouldn't let me go....yeah, thats when i stopped talking to him...he scared the heck out of me. hah...dont marry him!
yes. i've heard this one. and if he pokes you a lot. kid in know will definetly be an abusive husband cuz he's just an abusive person.
i love it when guys open the door for you, its very gentleman like.
i was always taught that younger girls should open the door for older women...as an extension to that rule.
i always offer my seat, but if a girl says no, i feel really stupid. i don't know why.
aww, poor dan...i'll keep that in mind.
I always feel bad taking a guys seat...but its nice they offer anyway.
yeah i always feel really bad taking their seat too.
haha so do i which is why jahanna and i were smooshing onto one seat until i finally found a chair for myself