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web-toedchloe by web-toedchloe · Jul 3, 2003 · 220 views · · · Journal

I got the job in Florham Park that I was lusting after. Yippeeeeeeee! It's $11,000 more per year than I'm making now. That's really the best part. I told them I'd start two weeks from Monday, but now I'm nervous.

The owner of the firm and the attorney that I work for had a meeting with me on Monday. They asked if I was planning on quitting. At that point, I didn't know if the job in Florham Park was definite, so I said, "No." Now I'm totally renegging. I'm so nervous to talk to my boss...

Why am I scared to quit? It's something that I've wanted to do for a while. I've got butterflies swarming in my stomach.

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22 Comments

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002 ·

holy that's a lot more money

thefunkyfresh thefunkyfreshFounder ·

why did they think you were planning on quitting? congrats on the job!

web-toedchloe web-toedchloeOG 2001 ·

I was mean to my office manager. In my defense, though, she was really mean to me first!

iwz iwz ·

Haha, so you were mean, and then she asked, "Aren't you going to quit soon?" and you said "No."

web-toedchloe web-toedchloeOG 2001 ·

Basically, yeah.

g.f.s.rocks g.f.s.rocksOG 2001 ·

Congratulations!! What do you exactly do??

web-toedchloe web-toedchloeOG 2001 ·

I'm a legal secretary. This new firm is a lot bigger than my current one. It's got about 50 attorneys and 4 offices in 3 states. We're also the #1 firm in the country with regard to asbestos litigation. It's pretty interesting stuff.

g.f.s.rocks g.f.s.rocksOG 2001 ·

asbestos litigation that does sound interesting.... how long have you been working in that field?

web-toedchloe web-toedchloeOG 2001 ·

This'll be my first job in it. Right now I'm in family law. I think it'll be an interesting switch.

togatweeter togatweeterOG 2003 ·

hercules! hercules!

fivezero fivezeroOG 2003 ·

be as honest and as professional as possible. tell them exactly what you've told us. also express your gratitude and appreciation for having you, even if you don't entirely mean it. Also, you could tell them what you going to make at the other company and see if they'll match it. thats a longshot though.

g.f.s.rocks g.f.s.rocksOG 2001 ·

Fivezero has it right on the money... it would be great if they gave you a counter offer for more $$!!

ok4now ok4nowOG 2002 ·

salary-matching is great...until the decide to let you go after one month. then what?

deanh77 deanh77Founder ·

geeze, I'd love to be making an extra 11k a year. pay off my stupid car loan.... ughg. so jealous.

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snowykoalaOG 2003 ·

hmm that would pay off my car loan and half my school loan :/

g.f.s.rocks g.f.s.rocksOG 2001 ·

Your still paying for the Xterra?

deanh77 deanh77Founder ·

psssh. yeah. for the next 2 and a half years. Advice to young people thinking about buying a car: save for a downpayment and don't finance everything including the sales tax. bad idea.

g.f.s.rocks g.f.s.rocksOG 2001 ·

Dean, that stinks.... So in other words your saying SAVE SAVE SAVE... right?

ok4now ok4nowOG 2002 ·

good for you, diane...one piece of advice: hand in a simple resignation letter.

g.f.s.rocks g.f.s.rocksOG 2001 ·

On their letterhead...that would be awesome

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painfullypinkOG 2003 ·

wow. i have no idea who you are but i read it because it said 'new job' and i am very jealous. i am currently looking and it STINKS. dont be scared to talk to your boss. remember, you are doing what is best for you and your boss should be able to appreciate it. AND - you already got the job so who cares. you no longer need your boss as a reference.

malibu malibuOG 2001 ·

ooooo i am such a fan of your username.

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