confusion
by ok im really confused and for those of u who really know me this shouldnt be a surprise but still im confused about girls, (once again). now i just wanna know y it is that when i find a girl that i really like she never likes me back and its a real bummer u know i was just wondering if any1 had an answer to this for me cause its mind boggleing that this happens to my soo many times, and come on guys u know its happend to u too, and if it hasn't that i am one sad person lol. Honestly i dont really knwo y im writeing this journal, maybe because i been sick for like 2 weeks and i have a mad case of cabin fever but in any case im still baffeld by this. uuuuggghhhh what else can i say except can some1 please explain this to me lol pleeeeaaaasse.
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do you really want to know the answer? haha
melody valenti you better watch yourself little miss
melody!!...be mature, come on....some things we must keep to ourselves
that was below the belt mel way below the belt :(
After I started dating my current boyfriend, one of my friends said to me, "It's nice when it's even". That sentence has always stuck out in my mind because it's really even only once in your life; with the person you marry.
yeah, i soo got even with mikayla by marrying her. muhahah
How old are you guy? My advice is... if you're like, i duno, under 21, STAY AWAY FROM GIRLS. Stay away as long as you can! hehe.. girls are evil and I am one so i know. That's about all the advice I can give. Heh.
haha good advice... hes 18 btw
see 18 is a pretty good age to start lookin around I guess. But my advice would be, to get to know girls as friends, that way you know what you would like or NOT like in a future wife.. since all girls are basically completely different and very confusing. And then one day you'll meet the girl that has all the qualities that you like, a couple that you don't, but the qualities that you don't like aren't ones that you can't tolerate. And you'll get married and everything will be great. For now, chill and enjoy being 18.
it helps to be really really really really ridiculously good looking.
Ok, so as corny advice goes mine is this: Believe me, it's better that the wrong girls aren't always knocking on your door. It makes the right one look that much better. And don't go knocking on the door of the wrong girls, it makes the right one look that much worse.
As a guy i say this: ENJOY your singleness while it lasts, you never appreciate it until it starts to slip away from you. I'm not saying chase women with your opportunity, i just mean do everything and go everywhere you can. it will make you that much more refined and it makes it easier to find a woman when you have more to talk about than your HS adventures....
see, jesse, i think you're lying. i've known you for like, 3 years now, and you meet plenty of chicks...and you have some good interests...so, don't stress
everybody has a match out there somewhere....but, before ya get to that match, everybody goes through a bunch of people they're either not compatible with, but go out with anyway, or, that simply aren't attracted to them..happens to everybody
dude, i'm 21 and i've never had a girlfriend either. i've gone thru the same kind of thing at times where i just can't understand why girls I've liked will "like me as a friend" but would never consider me anything past that. you learn alot about yourself as you get older, i'm glad i didn't end up with girls I've liked in the past. I'm sure that in a few more years I'll change even more. I dunno, i've gotten to the point where i really don't care. I know at some point i do wanna be married but that point is not now so why stress over it.
we had a really good talk the other day on "young dating" and it mentioned how if you're not in the position to get married you shouldn't really even be looking. i know people younger than me that are married, but i can apply that to myself too. we're all born with the desire for companionship, but there are other things to life as well. Just not stressing over stuff will prolly help you a lot.
oh please, dont let matt downplay this, this guy was quite the heartbreaker when we were younger, he played girls left and RIGHT!!! He aint a playa, he just crushes alot.
haha, true, true... except replace "heart" with "wind"
we could just ADD that to the list...
you just haven't stumbled across the right person yet. there are so many people to go through, you don't always find the right one right away. and being 18, you may not find her for a while. be glad and take advantage of that.
haha, your asking someone to explain the woman race to you?! lol, forget that man, dont even bother... yea... everything everyone said on here is good, hunkpapap was right in saying, enjoy your singleness... not that being with someone isnt ALOT of fun, cause it is, but its different, its nice to just be able to do your own thing, and thats what you can do while your single, buuut, we can all say this kinda stuff till we are blue in the face... your not gonna get any of it until you are older, for right now, id say, just take my word for it, relax, look around, like pat said... PLENTY of the wrong girls will be around, but when the right one comes around, youll know it, and then thats your decision what to do after that. Until then, PLAY MANHUNT!
Just have fun dude... and while your having fun... have fun with a girl..
you make a girl smile and laugh all the time. She's yours. and you have to be really really really really rediculously good looking.
Since you use the Zoolander line frequently, I thought I'd let you know that it is spelled ridiculous...unless you are spelling it wrong on purpose.
SERIUOULSY?
oh you devil child! you are spelling words incorrectly on purpose! you will burn in gehenna for this!!
just spell his name tai... he likes it.
i liiike it a lot. just shortened tai to ti.. even quicker to type.
ti reminds me of 3.14 etc
i think thats pi
more like pai
yes but shortened...........its pi
yeah i agree with you, in my high school the books said pi
