Golden Memories Go Sour
I'm fine.
No, really, I'm fine.
Well, I thought I was fine.
So, I've come to realize that no matter how good things seem to be, I can't get over my losses. Here I am, it's been about 4 or 5 months, I thought I had moved on, but I'm stuck in the same old love rut. I'm stuck on her, she truly was amazing, and I'm just unable to let go. I try to talk to her, but it hurts. When I think of her, and our times together, I get sick. I miss her so much, her smile and laugh, her personality...her hair. She's ready to be platonic, and it's killing me. I can't live with being JUST friends.
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Umm #1 rule when done dating someone is don't think of them, speak to them and don't hang out with them! Give your self some time away and focus on other things. However if you want to watch your heart fall out and see it get squished hang out with her alot :).
Or...you could just quick try to like someone else- my personal favorite- I'ld say the worst advice ever, but hey whatever works
Honestly, just try to keep your mind occupied- lately since i've been a little down - I'ld say pretty much the same thing- exercising releases allll that frustration - and it makes you happier.
Liiike goin on a bike ride or a hike or maybe just a plain old jog, besides that kind of stuff is fun anyway.
ooh yea, i agree with that, take a long drive or walk... whatever works for you... Sorry that had to happen to you man....
u gotsta keep ur options open. take this time to learn more 'bout urself. don't fixate on one person. give urself time, and u'll mature, u'll understand urself more. don't get infatuated with one person...in the long run, you won't be happy...
why don't you talk to her? at least tell her, what's the worst that can happen? or wait, nooo, is this your ex-girlfriend? if that's the case then noooooo don't say anything...think of other happy things like chocolate and plane rides and what not....i'm usless, nevermind....
at least you tried...