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web-toedchloe by web-toedchloe · Jun 7, 2002 · 153 views · Journal

Anyone that wants to come to my pity party, write a comment. I'm feeling a little lonely today. My boyfriend went to his convention this weekend, so I've got a date with my laundry and vacuum cleaner. I never thought that I would be this attached to someone. I never thought I'd be the kind of person that gets upset when they don't see their significant other for more than 4 days.

What to do, though? He's in Connecticut, and I'm here, and never the twain shall meet. I think I'm having some kind of incredibly emotional day, because when I woke up this morning and knew I wouldn't see him at least until Monday, I started to cry.

I need lots of pity!!!

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28 Comments

magnum #1 magnumOG 2001

hmm i have no significant other so as i see it your are doing alot better then me right now, thus leave your pity party and go have some fun with friends you haven't seen since your started dating.

web-toedchloe #1.1 web-toedchloeOG 2001

Good thought. It's not even that I won't see anyone this weekend, I know I will, I just feel more comfortable when he's there. When I'm alone, I feel really self-conscious, like everything I say is idiotic. But when I've got him backing me up, I know I'm ok.

magnum #1.1.1 magnumOG 2001

yeah usually i have my imaginary friend to back me up but sometimes he has to go on vacation and im left all alone :/

katiedid #1.1.2 katiedidFounder

what happened to my independent woman?!!

highschool #2 highschoolOG 2002

Um, when i don't see my boyfriend for one day, i get pretty crazy. Like i mean ... INSANE. He lives quite a hike away, and i see him about every other day or so, and it's insane, i want to see him every day. Oh my goodness.. i don't know what i would do if i coudlnt' see him all weekend. HOLY CRAP. The thought sends shivers down my spine. :( I feel for ya

web-toedchloe #2.1 web-toedchloeOG 2001

That's EXACTLY how I feel. I only get to see him on weekends, because our meeting schedules conflict, so fridays, saturdays and sundays are all we have. I AM going insane.

ilikebirds #2.1.1 ilikebirdsOG 2002

you ever thinkg about taking a picture of his head.. and then blowing it up .. and glue to picture to a pillow ??? sounds like a good idea to me.

web-toedchloe #2.1.1.1 web-toedchloeOG 2001

I want to talk to him, not sleep with him. Get your mind out of the gutter.

ilikebirds ilikebirdsOG 2002

who said sleeping with anything ? you never talk to your pillow...late at night.. anyway i was assuming that telephone conversations took place during nights laying on the bed.

web-toedchloe web-toedchloeOG 2001

Ohhhh. Yeah, that's true. Sorry for the false accusation. (I don't talk to my pillow, though.)

ilikebirds ilikebirdsOG 2002

well my people enjoy talking to pillows. sorry. forgot you weren't one of us.

katiedid katiedidFounder

now i'm wondering what those telephone conversations consist of - hehe.

thatdarngirl #2.2 thatdarngirlOG 2002

try two months ok..just try it and see what it does to your emotional situation!!

web-toedchloe #2.2.1 web-toedchloeOG 2001

That REALLY sucks.

thatdarngirl #2.2.1.1 thatdarngirlOG 2002

yeah it did..but I survived! the benefits of having good friends (love yah barbie girl)

malibu malibuOG 2001

all i can say (if i can spell it) is whooo ahhhh! hahaha

katiedid #2.2.2 katiedidFounder

that's the only thing that worried me about mike going to bethel. not that I was afraid not seeing him would tear us apart, but I was a little worried that we wouldnt be able to communicate enough to keep the relationship going. Right now, I see him every single day and I never get sick of talking to him. We chat online in the morning, I call him during lunch and after work, we hang out, and then we chat online at night. It's pathetic, but I love it! :)

thatdarngirl #2.2.2.1 thatdarngirlOG 2002

oh my if I talked that much to my boyfriend I think his mother would kill me. Like she would really try to kill me

ilikebirds #3 ilikebirdsOG 2002

Have some fruit snacks. I love fruit snacks. they are so good. everyone should have at least one pack of fruit snacks a day.

highschool #3.1 highschoolOG 2002

ooh good idea o asian one

ilikebirds #3.1.1 ilikebirdsOG 2002

that comment sounded a little racists...

highschool #3.1.1.1 highschoolOG 2002

oh but it's ok when you call yourself the asian sensation or whatever other gay llama lovin thing you say.. garrrrrrrrr

ilikebirds ilikebirdsOG 2002

hey hey hey.. relax.. i should have used my § symbol.. see it's usefull in those situations.. i have denounced the name of asian sensation.. and have accepted " The greatest of the orientals " but dont you all dare call me oriental

deanh77 deanh77Founder

did you know that oriental can mean "of a superior grade, luster, or value"? so, yeah, I guess I won't be calling you that anyway.

ilikebirds ilikebirdsOG 2002

don't hate. dance.

thatdarngirl #4 thatdarngirlOG 2002

Download Together Forever In Love by Go Sailor. It's sweet and maybe it will make you smile!

delliott101 #5 delliott101OG 2002

Ma, our little girl is growing up... don't worry, little sis, he'll be back soon. If it's any consolation, I'm having one of those days too. I am definitely up for a pity party...

malibu #6 malibuOG 2001

we saw your boyfriend in CT because we wanted to go to that convention.

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