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From David's Inbox: Attitude

delliott101 by delliott101 · Nov 14, 2002 · 130 views · Journal

From David's Inbox: "Attitude"

Note: No, I'm NOT talking from personal experience... I know I'm not old...

The 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud lady,

who is fully dressed each morning by eight o'clock,

with her  hair fashionably coiffed and makeup perfectly

applied, even though she is  legally blind, moved to

a nursing home today. Her husband of 70 years recently

passed away, making the move necessary.


After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of

the nursing home, she smiled sweetly when told her room

was  ready. As she maneuvered her walker to the elevator,

I provided a visual description of her tiny room,

including the eyelet sheets that had  been hung on her

window. "I love it," she stated with the enthusiasm of

an eight-year-old having just been presented with a new puppy.


"Mrs. Jones, you haven't seen the room just wait."

"That doesn't have anything to  do with it," she

replied. Happiness is something you decide

on ahead of  time. Whether I like my room or not

does depend on how the furniture is arranged ...

it's how I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it ...


"It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up.

I have a choice; I can spend the  day in bed recounting

the difficulty  I have with the parts of my body that

no longer work, or get out of bed and  be thankful for

the ones that do. Each day is a gift, and as long as

my eyes open I'll focus on the new day and all the

happy memories I've stored away,  just for  this

time in my life."


Old age is like a bank account ... you withdraw

from what you've put in .. So, my advice to you

would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank

account  of memories. Thank you for your part

in filling my Memory bank. I am  still depositing.


Remember the five simple rules to be happy:


1. Free your heart from hatred.


2. Free your mind from worries.


3. Live simply.


4. Give more.


5. Expect less.


No one can go back and make a brand new start.

Anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.

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10 Comments

rocksupastar #1 rocksupastarFounder

I think this is like the 7th time i have seen this email....

magnum #2 magnumOG 2001

once again to much to read, but i like to comment!

skaorsk8 #2.1 skaorsk8OG 2002

yeah seriously i dunno about some of these forwards dave... although sometimes you have not expect so much from your friends.

delliott101 #2.1.1 delliott101OG 2002

Oh well, that's why I put "From David's Inbox"

sux2beme #2.2 sux2bemeOG 2002

mega-ditto! on that one.

sux2beme #3 sux2bemeOG 2002

as i was waiting for the page to load i was like, 'don't be a long journal, please! don't be a long journal!' oh well.

delliott101 #3.1 delliott101OG 2002

Still on dial-up, huh?

sux2beme #3.1.1 sux2bemeOG 2002

no...i was d/l some stuff which kills my bandwidth

delliott101 #3.1.1.1 delliott101OG 2002

Good.. I figured you wouldn't be on dial-up...

sux2beme sux2bemeOG 2002

oh, so now you're a profiler?

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