Hugs?
by This thought suddenly crossed my mind today durning a science test.... is it wrong to hug? I personally love getting hugs. It's the highlight of my day! But I know that in some congregrations it's very different. I think that hugs are like the best thing you could eeeeeeeeeever get..... except something relating to Superman. Any comments?
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my entire congregation hugs each other everytime they see each other. its like a huge group hug every meeting...ahahaha
mine too! i loooooooove it!
i hug everybody
everyone u hang out with would be a better description it think...
no he hugs everyone....including that bum on the street...ya know the one, yeap HIM
ahhhhhh i got it now
correct. i hug EVERYBODY!!
you hug whore.
ya gotta be careful *how * u hug sumbody!
yea, hug rapes are the worst.
Hey Allie, remember when Brother Adams first visited...? He brought out in the First Century the instruction was to greet each other with a holy kiss (I'll look up the reference)... well, he was like "If you don't want to give a kiss, then hug!"
You know me, anyway... a big hugger. So is Di and our congregations in our Hall are very open and loving like that!
So I'll make sure I keep giving you a "holy hug"
hugs are great. You get that warm feeling. No bear hugs tho..
this is so funny, cuz in my hall, i'm used to giving girls i know well a hug and most others a kiss on the cheek (you know, a quick lean in for kiss...). anyway, when i went to the movies with some of you guys, i leaned in for the quick kiss, and it was awkward cuz i don't think anyone was expecting that. it's kinda wierd when u visit, ain't it?
and then with guys, i'm used to the handshake where you sorta lock right arms and pat each other with the left hand. but u guys were doing two-handed hugs. (or was that just dave...hmmm)
I'm a hugger... see my comment above, too!
the young people in our hall were counseled not to hug or kiss on the cheek. the elders told us it was inapropriate. it's really hard for me not to do those things because 1 my culture is like that and 2 i'm an affectionate person.
i don't know what you're talking about all the time when you say "your culture", because you live 15 mins south of me, and you have pretty much lived there your whole life, right? like, are your parents first generation europeans? did they come on on the boat? did they have pony? we ALLL had pony! my sister had pony! my brother had pony! (who comes to a NON-pony country?)
oh please you know what i mean. i was raised more like a european than an american. my italian heritage made me the person i've grown to become. it is my culture. how many americans can say that they had dinner with their ENTIRE family every sunday night growing up? i'm just saying that it's the way i was brought up. (what was the pony thing from i remember that...)
it was from seinfeld. what does this mean, raised more european than american?? how many times have you watched Top of the Pops or Neighbors? Did you cry for days when the Queen Mother died because of all that her position symbolized? Do you think that the Naked Chef's wife is hot? (I add that because I think she is). Have you ever complained because of the value of a Euro?? These are things that are European. Having dinner with the family...this is American.
(ohhh yes how could i forget sein) haha top of the pops-great show! i was glued to the tv when the queen mother died (and when anything happends in europe for that matter) but not because of her position-that would be wrong. i do think the naked chef AND his wife are hot (because they are). i haven't been back to europe since the euro. maybe i should have you come to a family thing and let's see how ameriGAN you think i am.
(yeah seinfeld rules that was the one where elaine had to sit at the kiddie table) anyway are you REALLY european...have you ever worn a uniform to school, have you ever wished you were American, have you ever played on cobblestone streets before having an espresso and a belgian waffle with choclate in a bistro while you waited for the rain to stop?
she must be european...i picked that up from her insulting comment about me and all my broken home friends. (jk...eating dinner as a family must be cool, tho. i'll have to wait until the new system to see what that's like. i'll be a first-generation dinner-together-eater)
i insulted you??
jk = just kidding (i could never take offense...but i am jealous) ;)
no jealousy. it's all good.
yeah well, this system sux...i just realized i'm at least a 4th generation broken home...and i hate it!
(haha and we have kiddie tables at dinner!) no uniforms. i would never wish to be american because patriotism is wrong. my heart belongs in italy where yes i've played on cobblestone streets before having an espresso but it was a sfoiatelli i had while waiting for the rain to stop.
haha i we used to have to sit at the kid's table too. i always wished that i was at the adult table. now that i can sit there, i realize how boring it is and wish i was back at the kids table. i used to love sunday family dinners at my grandparents.
sitting at the big table wasn't so great cus they usually put me on the end by the dog or where two tables meet where it's impossible to keep your dish flat. i miss ma and pa so much. i always think of him when someone overcooks pasta.
one thing weird about Italians...is that the single people wont hug or kiss...well i mean..two single people..opposite sex wont...if one person is married, its cool, otherwise, its not really acceptable. i found that really weird, especially cuz italians are known to be super kissy and affectionate.
it's not like that with my italian friends but we are SUPER close
yea, i didnt mean like italian-americans..or really close friends...but here, as soon as we meet someone we always hug...in Italy, it wasnt like that.
oh yeah you're definitely right!
yeah i would keep doing it anyway. i hug all my friends, guys or girls
we do...they just scowl at us when we do it now.
and i hug old people. i'm an impartial hugger. unless its a wacko. i don't hug wackos. i.e. a really weird guy who i may have certain uh "suspicions" about, or a flirty girl
unless they can show it to you in print in any of the society's publications, it is just their opinion. my sister cong. is like that and they are crazy not to mention seriously unbalanced about things. Like Tina said-hug rapes are bad, (who wants them anyway?)but hugs are an acceptable form of greeting in this area so no one can say you can't do it. They just come naturally!
i know i asked them if there was an article. it's not like we're groping each other.
haha. we used to be friends w/ this guy who would do what we called "the crush and touch" (remember jenn?). He would hug you real tight w/ his arms low and then somehow touch the top of your butt w/ his hands at the end of the hug. that was def hug rape-gross. but we can't let a couple fools ruin it for the rest of us.
no way!! that's not cool. you know what's so cute. my little sister used to do "squeeze your guts out hugs" after the meetings she would stand up on a chair so she could reach people and they would come over to say hi and give her a hug and she'd squeeze em as tight as she could.
ewwwwww, yea. That was gross.
My mom hates when i hug girls, she says that its just innapropriate.... oh well, i have always hugged people, and i still will...
man i ended up dating a girl once because of a hug thing. It was a friend of mine and i hugged her at the end of a wedding reception. She thought that meant i liked her even though i did it to a number of other sisters and she started calling me and hanging out more. The whole time i didn't know it was because of the hug. Anyway that was 3 years ago and now she is amrried and was on the cover of last years wedding awake.....
it seems your luck with the ladies is crazy!
yeah i had to place that awake, and you know what, she wasn't that pretty.
ha
wooooooah i made reaf laugh...but just becuase you laughed, don't think this changes anything between us, your car is still gettin lowered this weekend, whether you want it to or not
u got a ha, not a haha which is a certified laugh, u got half a chuckle if that from her
quiet crappola, or your car is gettin the wheels stolen
all i gotta do is call up jahanna and give the word, and your gas tank is gonna be filled with salt. or sugar. or possibly hairspray. i can't remember which.
a golf-ball full of anti-freeze. wait, no. def. do not do that.
hah she could care less what u say, cause shes my friend u evil one
that's what we should do sat morn. Toilet paper and wet someones car. I say a certain yellow xterra...
you have NOOO idea. I don't know how these women find me. But this is my theory: on the back of their weekend pass from the asylum is my picture and a map to my house........
hahaha, thats terrible! yet a really good explanation.
Hugs are better than drugs
ooo a little ryhme nice.
There's so many comments on this already. Ally, you know I love to hug. I don't know what I'd do if we didn't hug. I think I'd be sad. But hugging you makes me happy! :)
awwwwwww i feel loved
(In my best William Shatner voice): You are loved, Allie... You.... are.... loved
we all just shake hands. I'd like to be hugged more...
well, there you go. move to jersey
um..., i'll think about it :/
yeh, move to to jersey
I have this whole idea of how amazing hugging really is for people. Like..I have this one friend who gets mad a lot and I insist on hugging him all the time even if he tells me not to and punches me when I try. Because I think that like when your sad and someone hugs you it may not solve anything or even make you better at the time but subconciously it totally did make things better. It just feels like someone loves you, so even if they don't want to be hugged and are repulsed at the very idea it just means they need more hug
Hugging, I have found, is a very personal and emotional thing. It really displays tenderness of affection and closeness. If any of us go through a very difficult and trying situation, a hug (a REAL hug) is pretty much body language for saying: "I don't know what to tell you, but I'm feeling for you and I'm here for you"... If it's a happy occasion, a hug is like saying: "I'm so happy for you, I'm sharing your joy!" And it also gives the huggers, if it's part of a regular greeting or whatnot, it's like "You are a really special friend and I love you alot"...
It's something that draws me to people and it's also a great barometer of one's heart, in my opinion. Words say one thing, but a hug really tells much about one's personality... like whether that person genuinely likes you or not. Some people find it hard to hug, maybe as part of culture or whatnot, but you can usually tell..
and found out the other day that it is a proven point that babies who get hugged and touched more often when they are younger do better in life because they were shown that affection.
these kinds of hugs are always funny:
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hahhahah "A-frame" hugs
okay to me it looks like a guy being very naughty to a girl.
HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
a girl with no arms...
or much else, for that matter, i dont know how that could be construed as naughty.... hahahha
hey leave her alone...she's using her imaginationnnnnnnnnn
oh man if i used my imagination with that... it woulda been a lot worse hahahahaha
tisk tisk.... someone is being VERY bad today...
lol and everyday
well i for one, am stumbled.
what were you going to be stumbled for 3? ill take stumbled for 300 jonny
i think he said he's taking stumbled for 1
I think she is just dumb...
whattaya want, a crumb?
looks like a crab
or the aliens on sesame street....yip yip yip yip yip yip
THE YUP YUPS. I love those guys.....
i was mesmerized whenever they came on
ugh you guys are killing me!! ok, here's a more detailed drawing for those of you with overactive imaginations.
wow! an x! so kool!
haha, fixed it!
oh its a guy and a girl slow dancing at a formal while 5 elders watch them.
make sure you have your insight books between you kids
ok...NOW i see tina's point (jk)
you know whats the worst? the "air kisses" but seriuosly, if you DONT air kiss, its kinda weird... like have you ever had someone kiss your cheek flat on and you kissed the air... its just like...ummm eerrrr...weird
yes, those are so strange. your like ok...i just kissed the air but the person doesnt know so..just aqward(?)
i saw my friend and pretended like i was really going to kiss him and he was going for it! all i thought was i gotta cheek it quick.
hahahhah! tina, what does this remind you of? remember i went to give billy cunningham a hug, and he thought i was gonna kiss him, and he was all freaked out, and i was freaked out cuz i didnt know what HE was doing. hahahahhaha soooooooo hysterical.
haha yea good times.
shut up i know that kid!
i will NOT shut up! haha :)
how do you know all the people i know and we do not know each other????
Tina, didnt you meet Forreste the same day I did? at dan's?
i remember dan bringing me into his bedroom and he's like this is forrestina---i made a swift exit cus i was a little overwhelmed
i know you can be overwhelmed...but can you be just "whelmed"???
sucha great line
like i love my prada backpack
but like my sketchers
that is a really good movie. SHOOT bianca i'm shooting a nose spray ad tomorrow!!
backpack backpack backpack!!!!!!! So, Jahanna, what WAS the name of your 9th grade english teacher? Tina, i still hate you for that. :-D
lol i wanted you to shut up soooo bad...all i had to say was dora the explorer hahahaa sweeet sleeeeeep
dont' wanna talk about it?? i say why not, must be something something something LITTLE BLACK BACKPACK
oh yea, but still isnt it weird that we didnt know her before?
hey btw i can talk online now, but yer not here!!
just about everybody knows that kid.
bill cunningham is pretty cool....i haven't seen him in a while though
that's b/c he has his hands full w/ allyson. bill is great.
hahahaha