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starshiptrooper Dec 12, 2003

its more like the other way around, guys are out to USE all the girls they can. at least in the world.

toxicgirl Dec 14, 2003

It's impossible and unreasonable to make that broad of a generalization. You have had a bad experience. However, I am sure there are guys who have had bad experiences with girls. These individuals ...

tinser Dec 14, 2003

i think statistically though, guys in the world use girls in the world, more then vice versa...guys are more driven, and girls have a lot more to lose...but of course it happens both ways

toxicgirl Dec 14, 2003

I wouldn't say guys are more driven. And I think girls convince themselves that they have more to lose. Just because guys don't exhibit feelings the same way girls do doesn't mean they feel less. ...

dgiaimo Dec 14, 2003

Guys may not feel less, but I think most guys handle emotional pressure better than most girls do.

thatdarngirl Dec 14, 2003

I don't know if "handle...better" is the best way to phrase that. I think it's more ignore it. Girls handle emotional pressure in a very good way- they talk with their girl friends. This is healthi...

dgiaimo Dec 14, 2003

I don't know if you understand what I mean. Under severe emotional pressure anyone will buckle, but what I'm talking about is more the amount of pressure needed to get a person to that point. It ...

thatdarngirl Dec 15, 2003

I don't think this is true..girls just show it at a sooner point.

dgiaimo Dec 15, 2003

I thought that's what I was saying.

thatdarngirl Dec 15, 2003

No no..you said it takes less to make a girl upset. I'm saying that I don't think there is a difference in the amount it takes to get either gender upset but the difference lies in the way and when...

dgiaimo Dec 15, 2003

But acting indifferent isn't really showing the emotion, is it? I guess the reason I think this is that I've been thinking recently about why God decided to put men in the headship role. It's cer...

juicymango Dec 15, 2003

I don't know if i agree with that. Women are amazing at handling all kinds of emotional stress. And most women have a better pain threshhold than men. Also, tons of women are mothers, right? So the...

juicymango Dec 15, 2003

I remember the scripture that states that the head of the woman is the man... used to INFURIATE ME. And then that day in pioneer school when we spent half the day discussing the headship principle...

dgiaimo Dec 15, 2003

Why would it infuriate you? I'm absolutely dreading the fact that if I ever get married or ever have responsibility in the congregation that I'll be someone's head. It's just an incredibly scary ...

juicymango Dec 15, 2003

Well when I was younger, like 17-19 I was all big into feminist issues and all that kinda stuff. I was kinda rebellious in a sense that I thought I would never let any man tell me what to do. Of co...

dgiaimo Dec 15, 2003

Women deserve a lot more respect. And as far as guys who mistreat women... Well, my dad likes to say that they deserve "two bricks and a rusty knife".

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toxicgirlOG 2003

What's that mean?

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dgiaimoOG 2003

You really can't figure it out? The bricks are for smashing something (actually a couple of things) and the knife is for cutting something off.

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002

Whoah! I don't think cutting their "winkie" off is really gonna solve the problem. Hmm..or maybe it will.

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toxicgirlOG 2003

Yikes, just cuz I'm sicilian doesn't mean I think like a member of the mafia. But why carry around two heavy bricks when you can use your knee?

fivezero fivezeroOG 2003

knees aren't permanant enough.

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