Seriously, enjoy your singleness! It truly is a gift, trust me! You're young enough and just keep putting Jah first and everything else will fall into place.

And what exactly are we supposed to enjoy about it?

You're free to do whatever. Spend more time in service, hanging out with your friends. Traveling without worrying about saving much money for another person. There's just so much!

and what if all your friends are married and hanging out with them is just a constant reminder of how single you really are?

Exactly. It's depressing to think that I'm probably the oldest single brother in my hall.

I didn't think guys thought like that... You seem nice, you should come to Pennsylvania and meet a friend from my congregation. She loves California.