haha, what inspired this thread?..are you trying to figure out whether you're in love or not, by looking @ our definitions of it, and comparing how you feel to them? w/that being asked, i think....
But I don't just mean scenarios. I mean like the always having butterflies in your stomach or seeing fireworks when you kiss. For the former, chances are you have some nervous disability and for the latter..go get your eyes checked. Movies it's a little different because you don't hear the person's thoughts but in books and stories where they're like "We kissed and the heavens sang" maybe I just have bad ears but I have yet to hear singing.
I miss the butterflies.
I don't, they make me sick. Like..it's a nice thing but I think that falls more under a 'crush' then love. You can still get butterflies but I totally prefer just super-happiness when seeing your other or just like..a nice warm-on-the-inside feeling. Something like that.
I remember getting voicemails from my wife and getting butterflies while listening to them. Either the way she said something or what she said would triger them. And this was after 4 or 5 years of marriage.
ah, good feelings
That's the way it should be. I think it's awesome if you can feel the same way that you did about your significant other when you first started dating, even after years of marriage. I SO hope I still get those butterflies after me and my hubby have been married 50 years.