In all honesty that really isn't love that is infatuation you can't love someone you don't even know there just isn't enough there to have that kind of feeling.
There is a difference Mike, and it is possible. Rare, but possible. People just click sometimes, and when they do it's beautiful. You'd have to experiance it to understand.
Yes it may be a special thing but it's not love.
true what jesse says. i knew i wanted to marry andrew right away. i was afraid to believe it was love b/c logically it was too fast. but i knew it w/o a doubt i loved him. it clicked. very uncomplicated and smooth flowing. unlike the previous relationship which i thought was love but was really one complicated torturous mess.
Can't I just tell a beautiful story?(smile)
No but I agree with you. However I must say, that "mutual infactuation" felt very special. It encompassed everything. After cultivation, that inital infactuation and fascination grew into a true liking, and deep yearning for the other individual. You can be "infactuated" with a person, but to have them share the exact same feeling, this can equate into something special. Eventually that liking turned into a deep caring. And after time, that caring and concern "grew" into love. Looking back, I can say that even my initial feelings were something unique. I don't know, It's as if love warned me "Be careful, this will be love"
That's part of the reason I wanted it so bad. It was more real that any previous feelings i've expirenced, and I had expirenced a lot of "previous feelings".
Taht's pretty much the way most relationships tend to start out. Love has to be developed and cultivated. Didn't mean to ruin your beatiful story. It's just to many people I know feel that is what love is.
Can I have your autograph Dr. Phil?
So I have to ask you is it expierence which has taught you about love? You mentioned your friends, do they consult your advice?
No unfortunatly they do not. I mean I'm not the biggest authority on the subject or anything just throwing my 2 unwanted cents out there to be disected and ripped to shreds. I have had some experience limited but some. Most is from watching the mistakes my friends have made.