So true, looking back now I see I got married for all the wrong reasons, and they were selfish ones. Yes, I was madly in love, but I saw a lot of negative things that I thought she'd 'grow out of' or 'change' but that never happened. Those little negative things that might have been cute at first grew into major annoyances. And it got to the point where one little problem was steam rolling into much larger issues. But you live and learn. It's a shame it didn't work out but I just know now, more then ever, what I do want in a wife. Oh, and I'll remember to get to know the mother before I convince myself she's the one.