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specialk Mar 31, 2004

I don't know specifics, only experience. When my husband and I were dating, we went to the same congregation, and lived 5 minutes away from each other. We were never in a car alone together, althou...

specialk Mar 31, 2004

Basically, I don't think there should be a limit to how much time you spend together, as long as you are smart about it. I know couples here who, when they were dating, rode alone in cars together ...

beachbum Apr 1, 2004

that is one thing i could never understand...people get so upset over 2 people driving together in a car. no where does it say not to drive together-it says don't go park somewhere and make out. if...

skaorsk8 Apr 1, 2004

see, i'm with you. especially if you're seriously dating or engaged. so you're in a car. big deal. moving at 55 mph kind of prevents any craziness.

thatdarngirl Apr 1, 2004

Yeah, I've always had a thing about this too. I understand the need for being cautious not for the sake of making sure we don't do anything, but just to make sure we don't get in trouble. If people...

specialk Apr 1, 2004

Very true, but I think that if one or both persons has a "past" (I don't know any other way to put it), it's better to be careful. You never want rumors to start, and so sometimes you have to be ov...

thatdarngirl Apr 1, 2004

People'll start rumors about anyone..past or not. Even! if they don't have even the littlest bit of factual basis. So sad.

beachbum Apr 1, 2004

haha so true. people talk no matter what you do. you have know idea how many times i've wanted to jump up and give a talk entitled "Minding Your Own Business."

specialk Apr 1, 2004

Oh my word.....I couldn't agree more. Every young person and old person in my hall needs to hear that talk. If you ever develop it, give me your outline. Hehehe.

socalgal Apr 1, 2004

just tell them the scripture that says that....I can't even remember where it's at now.....and i just recited it the other day

beachbum Apr 2, 2004

i think it's in 1 Tim-the one about being meddlers in other peoples affairs?

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

YES, thats it, thanks!

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