It's not always the guy. I happen to be a gooey gushy guy that is straight forward with women. I always told my wife how I felt for her and tried to show it as well by doing extra things for her....
this is true. Our PO gave a talk on commitment and marriage and he brought out 1 thing that doesn't come natural for a man or a woman, for a man, love doesn't come natural and for a woman resp...
Well, it's my own fault really. I chose a woman in the world and now I'm paying the price. I feel bad all the time for the kids. They are only 4 and 2 and now they will probably have no memory of their parents being together. It is truly sad. I have a vacation video from last April sitting on my dresser, that if I watched right now would probably leave me in tears. She doesn't think it'll have an effect on them. She is sadly mistaken. As soon as they're old enough and see other kids with both of their parents together it will hit them. For some kids it is tragic. That is my only fear. If I had no children, believe me I'd be like "See you lady, don't let the door hit you on the way out". She is the only one that doesn't think what she is doing is wrong. And then to disrespect me and not wait the required 18 months for a divorce before seeing someone else boils my blood. It just makes her look like a slut. People in the world are really messed up.