personally, i like the choices ive made so far, i just dont like the idea of being measured by how ive handled things in the past or valued differently than someone else solely based on the number ...

I agree with this. Many people cling to the past as a blueprint for the future and that's great for avoiding repeating mistakes. Only sometimes it's used as a way to make excuses for restrictive a...

wow, i actually said something worthy of agreement instead of mocking. i must check that.