I went to my first meeting last night. Everyone was very welcoming, and it helps I know a few of them just from living in the same area all these years. Well, there was this one sister who was doing exactly what you said not to: "Don't be like 'Well, at home, it's better because...'" I could tell she was having a hard time adjusting. I tried to focus on the present and the positive and that made me feel better cuz I struggle with some of the same feelings. If you keep the convo upbuilding you tend to forget the negative things and you walk away feeling good. Thanks!