Well I didn't really mean that exactly...I mean like you're friends with a guy for a while, maybe he likes you but you're not sure. Maybe you like him but you're not sure. If you don't drop any hints because you're content at the moment does the guy tend to just say "Well if we're not gonna go for it then, that's it. We'll just continue to be friends forever and nothing more."? This is one guy's opinion and I'm trying to discern if it's universal.