replying to 15: im not hatin, im just saying youve got a mom and a sis, id expect you not to get so freaked out since you obviously have experience. listening is the absolutely best thing you can...
saying "i'm sorry you feel..." is not really an apology ... imagine if a girl was crying b/c of something i said, and i told her "i'm sorry you feel that way" ...you'd tell her to run ..... but since this is all the apology i am going to get, i'll take it.
it totally is an apology! i am sorry you feel picked on! it wasnt my intention. i wouldnt advise a girl to run from you if you were giving her an affirmation when she was upset. i would say, did you expect him to apologize for your perception? plus i gave you props for answering the question and being honest.