yo this is sooooo NOT happening to me whatsoever. maybe because i'm not invited anywhere. and i just party with Rastachinka and mr. Sergov Stolinaya
yeah this is not my situation either. Im exactly how life used to be, and have been for a while, just a short second did stupid things go on like this, and only becuase I let it go on like that. ...
i guess.. but this doesn't work for me because i just can't "block" people out of my life, i'm just not that kind of person
you can if its better for you. bad association spoils usefull habits, or in this case drama causeing people spoil useful habits.
i agree, mostly
me too.. but I guess you haven't experienced leech-like needy people. You are fortunate. And I guess you don't have that social worker mentality that doesn't allow you to flee, but summons you to try and help. Wish I had less of that.
i think ezabel has this persona of me that I am stand offish and not a friendly , good friend person, dont care about my friends problems, yada yada, That's wrong, Im just not an ezabel person. I am a very strong person, and I am always there for my friends, and id be the first person to give the shirt off my back literally to help them,if I KNOW they aren't going to abuse it, or miss use it, I help them see its not so bad the glass is half full, and i think for me thats what people miss understand, i think the positive not the negative, and i think it comes off like I am an insensitve person.
No way, I don't think that at all. I don't even know ya hun! maybe it's just that drama follows some people more than others. Such is life I guess. I try to steer clear. But lately with one of my circles of friends there's been some drama..and you definitely have something there about association. I've had to step back.
ya, this is true it does follow others more than it does some.
I think this may possibly be because you tend to contradict yourself, i mean when you say "i love my friends and I would help them if they needed me" and "block people that cause drama out of your life" in the same breath, it may be confusing for some (who don't know you in 'real life')
I guess,
not all my friends cause drama though, or I just block out the part where they do. so its not really contradicting.I think helping them and getting involved with petty drama is 2 different things.