yo this is sooooo NOT happening to me whatsoever. maybe because i'm not invited anywhere. and i just party with Rastachinka and mr. Sergov Stolinaya
yeah this is not my situation either. Im exactly how life used to be, and have been for a while, just a short second did stupid things go on like this, and only becuase I let it go on like that. ...
i guess.. but this doesn't work for me because i just can't "block" people out of my life, i'm just not that kind of person
you can if its better for you. bad association spoils usefull habits, or in this case drama causeing people spoil useful habits.
I think that the reason I needed to vent in this journal is because this hasn't happened in a while and I thought it was over with and I wasn't gonna run into this kind of thing anymore, and it's very annoying. Like you said, things happen, people don't always get along, yadda yadda, it's just annoying when it does happen. Believe me I hate drama and I don't feel like it follows me, it's not constant, if it was constant I would be used to it and wouldn't be annoyed by it anymore, haha.. it's just annoying when it does happen. Life happens, problems happen, people happeen... it's kind of unavoidable (even with the most laid-back people). I just needed to vent because it's annoying. And a lot of people go thru the same stuff. So it helps to hear that, it made me feel better, and I've moved on haha...
yeah
plus like, you know how it is, some people just do not want to hang out with their ex's, haha.. or their current other half's ex's .. or WHATEVER. it's annoying... doesn't mean you "get involved" in their petty drama, but you're still affected by it because when suddenly and unexpectedly the two people that don't wanna see each other wind up in the same room, everyone's kinda on edge. There's just tension in the air for some reason. It's annoying. It happens though. And sometimes it leads to like, separations of circles of friends because so and so starts dating so and so's ex girlfriend and suddenly no one wants to hang out in the same group anymore. You don't have to get "involved" in that, but you're still affected by it... that's all i'm sayin..
ha ha, thats just immaturity = petty drama = ignore it, because you can't help the way a person thinks so go about your regular business, can't please everyone, as i have learned
yeah but you can't force people to be friends or to hang out, so you have to like, be careful, not to invite the same people over as you normally do, and this is annoying. You can think it's immature and petty but you still have to respect people's wishes and stuff.
of course not, but there way of thinking is immature they cant be in the same room because some one else is, cmon, i dont care if your 45 and you think like that, its immature. we are all brothers and sisters we should not feel like that towards each other especially.
If we dont have our christian brother hood what do we have?
what happens if you have to be the ones to help each other out in dire times, will you be able to over come those feelings then , if you cant over come them now?
not that i care about the particular situation you are talking about cause thats anciant already,and has been done since it has been started. but in a general basis to think like that is immature.
and i wholeheartedly agree with this. I always think "what if i have to live next-door to this person in the new system" haha.. ya know? I don't feel any negative feelings towards anyone. Perhaps that's my problem I'm too nice haha... I don't agree with that way of thinking but if a friend doesn't want to hang out with their girlfriend's ex i'm not gonna force them to haha .. it just becomes a stressful situation i guess... and it becomes stressful because i don't agree with the viewpoint and i wish everyone could just get along.
how did i know i was gonna come back in here and see a bunch of controversey?