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sunshyne Oct 25, 2004

i've used some of these when getting to know someone new, not necessarily romantically, but in general: where did you grow up? who do you live with? what keeps you busy? what keeps you sane? w...

suchgr8heights Oct 25, 2004

Thank you Summer! :)

sunshyne Oct 25, 2004

youre welcome! also, "what accomplishment are you most proud of?" and "what is your biggest regret?" are pretty revealing. of course, you prolly want to ask about goals and stuff.

hunkpapap Oct 25, 2004

yeah sorry, no. Those are job interview questions, not relationship questions...

sunshyne Oct 25, 2004

women are interviewing for a spiritual head. thats a big job to let someone do for you. put yourself in our shoes.

hunkpapap Oct 25, 2004

well i understand but put yourself in the shoes of a man who feels he is in an interrogation room with the hot light on him and just wants to run. I'm just saying re-word the question, because i...

suchgr8heights Oct 25, 2004

I wouldn't wanna be interrogated either...to be honest, when the communication is good between two people, conversation flows and it has thus far but I just don't wanna miss anything important that...

hunkpapap Oct 25, 2004

I'm just giving advice about most guys. Personally i don't care. And any man who knows Summer would know she is way too sweet to actually be interrogating anyone and her intentions behind any que...

suchgr8heights suchgr8heightsOG 2003

you mean to say most women arent sincere in their inquiring?

hunkpapap hunkpapapOG 2003

wow i seem to be diggin a deeper hole here. So I'm going to put down my shovel, sit down, cross my legs indian style and wait for a ladder...

suchgr8heights suchgr8heightsOG 2003

NO! please don't! I'm curious and wanna know what you're thinking.

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

i need to help pat here....most women seem like they're innterogating ones cause they want a mate. but not all. like he said only certain ones like summer can get away with it. but others it may seem like and interview/interrogation, as some of these girls are already planning the wedding upon the first meeting with the guys.

hunkpapap hunkpapapOG 2003

you were reading my mind exactly, thank you... :)

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

anytime hun =)

suchgr8heights suchgr8heightsOG 2003

Ok, I see. But to bring it back, we're talking about two people who've agreed to "talk." Just lookin' for material.

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

even then you have to be careful. Guys don't like being put on the spot. THey can be SO wildly into you but interrogate them or do something lame, they can do a 180 and re-think about seeking to pursue you.

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