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socalgal Oct 27, 2004

(single) looks wise you can def. find "the one" and be in love right off the bat. BUT there's more to relationships than that. You have to truly KNOW the person, understand the person and TRUST t...

suchgr8heights Oct 27, 2004

You know what I can't understand? Why some people want you to know that this person is the one before you even date them! Sure, it's important to get to know them before you date but REALLY how can...

thefunkyfresh thefunkyfreshFounder

i think its important... it important to know what that person acts like in a regular relationship first. how he/she treats others, their friends, their family. how they react in normal day to day situations, all that stuff is important. if you just start dating, bam instantly, you both may (whether u know it or not) not totally be yourself

fivezero fivezeroOG 2003

you speak wise truths, this time

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

exactly, and thats what the YPA book brings out. see how they act while in the group settings (etc) before hand.

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