i agree completely-i thought the same exact thing when reading it. the 'one' is not really something you have to decide on. you know w/o doubts. it's not a comparison to anyone else, you don't weigh it out to see who is best. true it takes some people a little longer to know than others, but i think if you don't know positively within say a year or so, you might want to rethink who you are with.
see, i don't agree with that at all. you're making that decision based on right now, if you look at it from that angle. i knew without doubts that i loved my leather jacket when i bought it 5 years ago, but now it's time for a newer one.
but a leather jacket isnt a human being. it can't make sacrifices or change or adapt. STUPID ANALOGY!!
no, i don't think you understand. first of all, a leather jacket doesn't work on the relationship and love you back. second, it's not just a decision based on right now. when you are with the right person, you aren't wondering if there is someone better for you out there now, 1, 5, 10 yrs down the road. you know without a doubt that as long as that person is living (which may be eternity) you will not want to be with anyone else, even if perhaps there was someone else in the world with a compatible personality. trust me, i've been there.
true, if you're wondering if there's someone better out there, you're always going to be chasing after that and you're never going to find "the one"
there is always someone better looking, smarter prettier than we are, but you can't go on that alone. it's all about connecting with that person, respecting that person, personalities.
like i said you can love someones looks right off the bat, but being "in love" totally involves WAY more than that.