is this how it'll be after the wedding? asking us for help all the time? ;)

I think he thinks I'm unreasonable

Your not unreasonable. I can relate. :) When making a decision like this always think of what it will look like in 10 years. When you look back at your pictures you want to say wow, we looked go...

haha, you're really doubting your writing skill or something today, eh? don't worry, mandie, you got your thoughts across fine : )