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beachbum Jan 15, 2003

marriage is hard the first year b/c it's adjusting to a whole new way of life. you have to adjust your thinking about everything and take another person into consideration all the time. both peop...

whoknows Jan 15, 2003

You definitely make some good points. However, to me, it's kind of like, when you have a really good friend, a best friend, and it's just effortless, like you just GET ALONG and things just WORK. ...

beachbum Jan 15, 2003

depends on how stubborn you are--or aren't. :) I definitely married my best friend, we just have different views on things sometimes and it's not always easy to give them up when you feel strongly ...

whoknows Jan 15, 2003

yeah, true true. Hehe... well anyways, marriage is fun and you have nothing to be afraid of if you found the right person and if you have an open mind and are willing to adapt yourself to the othe...

beachbum Jan 15, 2003

i agree it's def fun. i'm glad someone else feels that way b/c i heard the same things you did before marriage about how hard it was and stuff. i ignored it b/c obviously those people aren't very h...

whoknows whoknowsOG 2003

Yeah, I really think that must be it!! Well i'm glad SOME of us are proving those statements WRONG :)

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