hey jess - good to hear you are doing so very well. Go with the spiritual goals ALL the time, all the other parts of life will work out to the most amazing situations.
The hard part will be figuring out who you want to be with, but just pray super specific when it comes to this. Pray in terms of exacts and details. I mean you probably have already done this, but I am telling you it will decide exactly what you are trying to figure out.
Call me sometime... dan and I can come visit.