i would have to agree with dave here.... cuz honestly theres a lot of spiritual people who im just NOT attracted to... yes spirituallity comes FIRST but being attracted to someone is EXTREMELY important! youre going ot have to wake up EVERY day for the rest of your life looking them in their ugly face.... sorry no thanks...
thank you tina. i know your always on my side
just wondering...are the people saying they want to be with someone hot still single?
Is that me you're agreeing with or is legiapol also a David? Anyway, it DOES sound like my attitude. Spirituality is 1/4 of the equation, balanced with emotional, physical and mental qualities. That's why I'm convinced I'll be single til this system ends. I'm sure I won't come across someone like that til the new system... she'll probably be born 200,000 years from now...
Something I tell myself is what Tina said... can I see myself waking up every morning with someone and being totally satisfied that I'm happy that person is my wife? Can I see so and so sharing my theocratic goals with me and will she even QUALIFY to share those assignments with me? THEN, will we get along and share common interests? Will we click? Will we be enthralled with each other's looks? Lot's to think about and not to be taken lightly...
hahha legiapol is also a david. and man we think alike. im gonna be single till the day i die. hopefully ill make it to paradise and then ill be single in paradise too , cause still no one will be perfect enough ahhaha
Heh... amen, brother... although I have to add that in the new system no one will be perfect enough to put up with me!!!
don't be so pessimistic, daves...it's good that you're being patient, but don't think it'll have to take so long...
I'm not trying to be all down and stuff... just realistic. Actually I know the time's not right for me now so if I keep telling myself what I'm saying, it's better for me...
i guess that's realistic
i dunno, i've dated some girls that were not hot AND not spiritual. I didn't find out either one until after we were dating. DOH!!!
