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superhero Mar 21, 2005

yeah, you know what man, the feelings rush back .... but i have a tried and true slogan ... some of you will think it's wrong but it always works ... "nothing helps you get over the last one like t...

socalgal Mar 21, 2005

being happy and content and confident makes you more interesting.

thefunkyfresh thefunkyfreshFounder

lol, at first i kind of thought he meant to get with somebody else and you'll forget about the other person.

cuz i dont know if that's a really healthy thing to do

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

thats how i took it too....hmmm, superhero clarify....please.

thefunkyfresh thefunkyfreshFounder

my motto is: "if you're not happy by yourself, you'll never be happy with anybody else"

meaning, while a deep relationship with somebody can make you happy, if you're an unhappy person you shouldn't ever think that being with somebody is just going to SNAP make you happy all of a sudden.

superhero superheroOG 2004

no, it doens't have to be a person. it can be anything - as long as you're moving on to something else to occupy your thoughts.

everyone else - stop reading things the wrong way.

yay yayOG 2004

acceptance, then void, then fill the void

violetboregaurd violetboregaurdOG 2003

yea i have to agree with superhero, and really only based on the fact that I have TOTALLY been where you've been Matt. It is like being held prisoner of sorts - but what Dan is saying is that, if you move on to the next thing, not the next person persay... but you put the energy you expend on the the prisonership in to something else. And then slowly you really do move on and completely grow as a person.

superhero superheroOG 2004

sometimes, i feel like i finally have a defense lawyer here on ezabel. it's a wonderful thing. :)

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

luv is blind :P

violetboregaurd violetboregaurdOG 2003

anytime - I happen to speak Superhero quite fluently. :)

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