people swear by their own brand when it comes to everything nowadays. doctors, dentists, stores, products, diet, ways of doing literally anything, etc. it's swell they've found happiness in, i don't know, building model airplanes, but that doesn't mean someone will find or is capabe of finding the same happiness in that specific thing. people are apples and oranges and pears and peaches--comparisons just don't apply. what's good for the goose isn't always good for the gander.
yeah i have never gone up to someone who has kids and said "wow don't you wish you never did that? don't you wish you had freedom to do whatever you wanted without having to wipe a baby's butt all day??"
i mean could you imagine??!?!?!
but people who HAVE kids do this to those who don't
haha i know this is a whole other topic but it's a similar principle
There's so many parents in our hall with lots of kids that weren't planned. They see us together and say, "Never have kids." Good stuff.
lol.. that's so saaaaad!!! I love kids, i think they are amazing little human beings and have so much potential - and it makes me SO SAD to see them hurt and abused and sick and dying in this system. I think a lot of kids just don't get a fair chance because of the world we live in, and that's pretty much the #1 reason i don't want to bring any more into this world.
that's what i think about too.
annd this is also kind of why it's actually wise not to get married in this system, because just as kids have a hard time growing up in this system, marriages have a hard time surviving in this system. No matter who you are your marriage is going to be tested and attacked by Satan. And it is harder to maintain your faith when you're not only fighting for yourself but for another person, or even a whole family.