i do agree with you that it is case by case for the most part. there are factors-did you just meet? how long did you talk? do you have a common interest that you could invite her to (ex-show that both of you like the band)?
i wish i could edit my comments so i make sense. it seems like i am giving two contradicting views but i'm not. i'm just saying you might have to play it easy if you hardly said a word to her. it would be awkward if you met someone and talked to them for 5 min and then were like "hey want to come to my grandma's house for a family bbq" ya know?
Now that I understand. You definitely can't push a relationship (any relationship, really, even just a friendship) that quickly.
Well plus that's kinda soon to be interested in someone that way anyways. Should really know someone a little bit better than that before your all I'm interested in this person because then's it's pretty much just your attracted to them it being pretty much purely physical and that can be asking for trouble. In my opinion anyways.