I'm not sure. We didn't get into the other side of the issue.
One thing she did mention is that when she first met her husband she pretty much wrote him off, and that if he had tried to invite her to stuff she would never have gotten to know him. I don't quite see how that applied to what we were talking about, and I can sort of understand it, but it still seems a little immature.
my mom and dad were set up by a set of twins-one lived by mom, one by dad. they arranged to have my parents meet at the beach and both had a group of friends with them. when my mom saw the guys coming over the dunes, she thought i hope it's not the fat one. after a day with these guys, my mom was thinking PLEASE let it be the fat one! well, it was the fat one and they've been married over 30 years. i post this story to all my single girls out there. it's not wrong to be selective, but you might be pleasantly suprised when you go outside of your "type."