Stef,

You are so right... I can't believe how many witnesses have gone through divorces because one mate has chosen to go to the world. A close friend of mine went through a divorce last year and I was shocked because the brother seemed to be doing so well spiritually, but all of a sudden he just lost sight of what was important in life, and in doing so he twisted and manipulated the feelings of someone who truly cared for him... As Brotherman brought out... Im sure the next person she chooses will be someone she will be disecting for a long time, because you dont want to make the same mistake, and also she was only 19 when she got married, so it truly does solidify Brotherman's comment about you being a different person when your 19 to when your 25.

The sad part is, I met someone over July 4th weekend who his wife after a year of marraige, left him for some guy at the gym... Once again, he agreed also that he was too young to get married, also only 19, and that next time he will make a better decision.

We truly are living in the time of the end... Im sure there have been divorces in the past, but now, even within the organization, kids dont think twice about it... They are taking marraige so lightly, and that truly is so sad... To think Jehovah created Man to be with a Woman and when someone thinks they finally found their match and for it to fall apart, you can only imagine how heart breaking that is....

Truly, Jehovah is not pleased....