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socalgal Apr 3, 2007

most girls are drama...and as juicy said, most girls are SO pressured to get married...so they latch on to whatever guy is paying attention to them. it really sad.

originalsnob Apr 3, 2007

See the statement that "most" girls/guys do anything worries me. Because it could potentially vilify the general male/female population. So anyone that pays another attention is automatically after...

flomojopoanode Apr 3, 2007

you def. lost me.

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

im with todd, completely lost. most doest mean all. we all fit into one category one way or another. if you're not in the "most" category then dont worry about it. LOL

originalsnob originalsnobOG 2004

Alright you two.

My curiosity is more in the direction of where is the line drawn to decipher which people (of either gender) are doing this (pursuing someone desperately in contrast to simply being friendly)and which ones are not. Are there special glasses you can put on to tell, honest to goodness just wondering.

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gizmoEst. 2006

From what I've seen, you can usually tell by observing the difference between how they treat that person with how they treat everyone else. Someone who is just friendly is usually friendly with everyone, whereas someone who is pursuing someone desperately quickly latches on to that one person.

originalsnob originalsnobOG 2004

This makes sense.

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