I have not been on ezabel for a while. So it is time to add some comments.

I am a HUGE activist of BEATING your kid.
I can NOT explain how many times a child has run in the kingdom hall, gave lip to an older person, smacked another kid and the most that happens to the child is a stern talking to.

GIVE ME A FREAKING BREAK.
My husband feels the same way. When we have kids whenever that will be who knows, I'm sure we will be the Nazi parents of the hall because I REFUSE to let my child run my life, they already will be taking up 99% sent of my time & I don’t need them to RUN it.

I was a well behaved kid man. it got to the point that if I acted up during the meeting I got the eye and GOODNESS KNOWS that was worse then just smacking me because I knew I was getting it when I got home., & I totally deserved it. If it wasn't for my parents taking charge I would not have realized how important the meetings are and that they are not playgrounds, same as being a guest in someone’s house.

I also respect my parents for being firm & reasonable of course. & anyone who knows my parents knows they were chill, cool, & easy going parents, but they also laid the law down when we needed it.
Kids do not have respect. IT KILLS ME.
WHAT REALLY Kills me
is when we have families over and the child is running around my house, LITERALLY running. I NEVER did that! &&&& The parent does not stop them. WHY??

The thing too is Jaws is NOT about kids. So if the child is obnoxious Jaws, oh man he does NOT like it. I have to put him away so he doesn't bite the child.

So BEAT YOUR KIDS WHEN THEY ACT UP. LOL Cause If you don’t I just might.-haha

Now the whole “controversy” of having or not having kids (& controversy is specifically in quotes because I don’t believe it is a controversy it’s a joke.) Who is it of anyone to say yay or nay of having or not having them, adopting or not adopting? It’s ridiculous. If you want them have them, if not don’t. It is not up to anyone but you and your mate. & there should be no pressure because why should you care what people think about such a huge decision. It changes YOUR life not theirs. SO how can there be any debate when it only involves yourself & your mate. That’s what I’m saying. Ha ha

At one point I was all about babies. At the moment I am not because I like my time. Buying a house and having a pup took up a lot of my time & at the moment I am not ready to dedicate my life to a child. Although I love my house and my pup it still takes up more then enough of my time. & I feel having a child although I would LOVE it, it is just not for me right now. A child can wait a few years. I want to travel. It is hard enough trying to find a person who is capable of handling my dog for weeks at a time. The time will come when babies are in our future.

& I am totally naming my kids cool names. I hate boring names. Ha ha- my name is so boring and I wish to goodness gracious my parents gave me an exciting name.

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