but sometimes they make themselves seem so innocent, even running to the elders w/certain issues to cover their own lies up to make it look bad on others. making themselves seem so sweet an innocent in front of the elders and others. THAT aggrivates me. i mean i know they'll be made known, in a big way, jehovah has his time. but i want it to be known NOW!!! i want this chick exposed! LOL
*yes im impatient! lol
Just be patient Gina... everyone gets exposed eventually, all you can really do is keep yourself going strong and inform anyone who may be misled by this persons lies...
is she in your hall? the worst is when you've got beef with someone who is and then you pretend to others that everything's fine but really you're just trying not to cry (or fantasizing about running them over with your car). lol. Hope things work out for you asap!
why would you need to pretend? thats almost like lying yourself.
While lying is wrong, we should still try to be peaceable, and sometimes that requires a lot of self-control. We wouldn't want to NOT hold back, just because we feel we aren't being honest about how we feel. We should hold back, we should restrain ourselves if we are mad or annoyed with someone, and pray for self control, and try to resolve the problem according to the way that we've been taught to do so. (preachy, sorry. I just didn't like the vibe I got from this comment)
think about it, if you dont have the guts to tell this person you cant "pretend" to be nice to them face to face. what does the bible say, you must confront. jehovah hates a hypocrite, right?
im not talking about being rude, or making it known we have a beef w/this person. as with everything we are peaceable to all. BUT that doesnt mean it gives us the right to be a hypocrite and be nice to the person and "pretend" and then once their back is turned we act like the world and talk about them.
you're talking about them right now.
not at all. i was venting about a situation. nothing else. and im not "pretending" to be nice to this person. im not all nicey nice to their face and talking about them behind their back.
there is a difference. venting and gossiping. TOTALLY different.
I wouldn't say you are gossiping anyway. The person has remained anonymous.
thank you. and YES this is a particular situation. this has happened NUMEROUS times from different people. lying is part of this sick world...it'll always be around us until this system ends. we all have dealt w/someone like this.
Yup, and it's sad when peeps in the truth do it.
and thats what i was venting about. i cant stand it.
Hey Alex... Make yourself useful and get me lunch since you work nearby. haha... I'm working at home.
What happened to my lunch?
Aww... Katie needs a hug. Group hug everyone!
awwww!!! :)