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brotherman Jan 2, 2008

Oh well... Back to the drawing board...

g.f.s.rocks Jan 2, 2008

What happend?

brotherman Jan 2, 2008

I guess I felt she was more of a friend than a potential marriage mate. I tried. But she could tell I wasn't in it 100%. It wasn't fair to either of us to continue things. Maybe it's just bad t...

socalgal Jan 3, 2008

wow. are you serious? im sorry. i feel bad for her too. REALLY bad for her.

brotherman Jan 3, 2008

I have a "wall" I need to break down before I will be ready for anyone. I think that is why I had hot and cold feelings toward my relationship with her. So my goals are to make all the meetings, ...

socalgal Jan 3, 2008

i know. that is why you need to BE FRIENDS for a while. you knew you had a wall before, knew you needed to increase service etc and you hurt a good girl in the process. like im BIG on backing y...

brotherman Jan 3, 2008

Yeah, I see what you're saying. I think good will come out of it though. In time...

socalgal socalgalOG 2003 ·

just dont hurt anyone else and TOTALLY work on yourself before you jump in the dating game again! :P

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brothermanOG 2004 ·

No, you're right. I'm not dating anyone until I have made some breakthrough changes and I am feeling like a million bucks.

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brothermanOG 2004 ·

We talked and are going to take a break for awhile and revisit things at another time.

socalgal socalgalOG 2003 ·

good. is she ok?

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brothermanOG 2004 ·

She's pretty tough. I know she's upset, but she appreciated my honesty. When I'm ready, we're going to hang out again. I feel bad, she hasn't told her dad yet and he likes me a lot. I told her to just tell him we're taking time to reflect on things and to make adjustments and that we'll revisit things in the future.

fivezero fivezeroOG 2003 ·

so, you'd be mad if i starting going out with her?

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brothermanOG 2004 ·

I'd beat you senseless.

socalgal socalgalOG 2003 ·

good. is she ok?

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