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englandkid Feb 21, 2008

Is there a nice way to ask when you will be receiving your thank you cards for shower, personal shower and wedding??

iwz Feb 21, 2008

wait a sec. are you saying you gave someone a present and you haven't yet received a "thank you" card for it, and you're thinking about asking when you will get it? because that seems a bit rude...

englandkid Feb 21, 2008

a friend of mine got married recently. I bought her a total of four gifts all through the engagement period for different events I was invited to. I only received one thank you card after the eng...

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

honestly, i couldnt complain about spending "hard earned money" esp for a friend. ya know what i mean?

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

and did she give you a formal thank you when you were at the shower (ie thank you for coming, thank you for sharing this with me)? that should be enough, dont you think?

englandkid englandkidOG 2003

well number 1, you dont know my financial situation and number 2 you dont my relationship with my friend. Anyway I dont see what that has to do with. A thank you card should be sent whether the money was hard earned or not.

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

no i dont know any of that and im sorry to offend you...i dont mean to. but you dont know whats on her agenda either. one friend, i rec'd the thank you card 7 months later. they got busy, family death, lay-offs. so you dont know what the stall is. or maybe she just didnt send any thank yous to anyone. maybe thats just her.

englandkid englandkidOG 2003

its ok. The only reason I was wondering is because my mom who gave several of her own gifts as well keeps asking me where it is. She thinks I should ask my friend.

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