Is there a nice way to ask when you will be receiving your thank you cards for shower, personal shower and wedding??

wait a sec. are you saying you gave someone a present and you haven't yet received a "thank you" card for it, and you're thinking about asking when you will get it? because that seems a bit rude...

a friend of mine got married recently. I bought her a total of four gifts all through the engagement period for different events I was invited to. I only received one thank you card after the eng...

i dont think you understand how much is going on after an event like that... to be honest, thank you cards are pretty much bottom of the priority list after a wedding... least imo

that's probably true but i know that she will be off on monday and doesnt have anything to do.... so i was wondering if maybe a gentle reminder would be helpful.

Then you might say to your friend something like, "My mom has been asking about a 'thank you' card. It would mean a lot to her if she received one from you."