hmm..i'm not sayin this is the way it SHOULD be...but what i'd do is: -Telling the other person you like them-i would -Asking the other person out-i wouldnt -Holding hands-i highly doubt it -...

yeah, i like that last part you added...its not like you just sit there and don't let him know anything you feel until he makes all the moves...but its more of an official thing...a formality (nice...