Yeah,I think the soulmate thing DOES exist, but it's more because of math reasons than anything else, there's soooooooo many people in the world, w/so many different variables forming their personalities, odds are there's more than a couple out there that you would clique with right away, that you'd be perfectly compatible with...But, the odds that you'll FIND this person, that's pretty slim...So, most of us end up w/somebody that we lovingly tolerate, as opposed to our perfect match...
yeah, but think about it. Wouldn't you get along better with someone that has alot in common with you. I dont think a person who is your perfect match with you who lives in Japan would have much in common with you.
that's kinda what I was talking about by a perfect match, haha, whoever this person is, they're most likely going to be in your cultural, social, and age bracket, and have a lot in common w/you...it's just that, whoever that person is for all of us, we'd probably never meet them cause there's just to many people in the world...BUT, I believe you can learn to love somebody who's not your identicle match..and it can be just as positive a relationship as if it were this "soulmate"
I'd be extremely disappointed to feel like I was being lovingly tolerated. I think if a person is really serious, that they believe they have found the perfect match and don't want to be told otherwise.
there's a difference between beliving or thinking that you found the perfect match.. over actually FINDING and having the perfect match... your heart clouds all matters... and stuff.. it's like a box of chocolates.. you think this dark one is perfect.. and it's all good and stuff.. but when you smear it on your body.. you find out it's peanut butter inside.. and you're allergic to peanut butter. but now if you were to gently take a bite.. and find out whats inside before smearing it all over your body.. you might have realized.. "hey this isn't the one i want to body paint with" . hope that made sense.
Once again you artfully manage to completely avoid the topic of conversation by derailing. You should get the Ezabel superlative of "Always Off-topic."
But all I was saying is that I wouldn't want to be second guessing my choice.
yea thinking that you've found your perfect match.. when you really haven't happens. happens all the time. and it's a fact of life. now you have to work together to become each others perfect match. everything is possible with a little DOing.. and trying...and chocolates
Despite the chocolate analogy..the first part makes a lot of sense.
if you think about it the chocolate analogy does too. but i think i might be toooo smart for some people
yo this isn't off topic.. YOUR MOTHER IS !
yeah, I think i was a bit cold w/how I phrased that, lol, look to my above comment, comment #10