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tinser Nov 4, 2003

if a guy doesn't make the move all on his own...he doesn't want you bad enough anyway, and isn't worth the trouble

skaorsk8 Nov 4, 2003

that's your opinion because you're CHICKEN!! too scared to take a chance, i bet

tinser Nov 4, 2003

when i see somebody worth taking a chance on...i'll do it...anyway, my mom says that the guy should like you more then you like him...and i think it's true, i'm not into chasing guys...too many gir...

yodasucka Nov 4, 2003

i totally support this comment.. if the guy is interested... he'll make the move on his own... of corse we can do our part in flirting and letting him know that we are at least a little interested....

fivezero Nov 4, 2003

we can be. that much is true. and when we are: boy, is it a mess. it's funny how girls go around saying stuff like that and guys don't, for the most part. nowadays girls are raised to have what...

beachbum beachbumOG 2002 informative

i also agree that a girl can initiate something w/o "chasing". get on common ground w/ the guy (even if it means finding out a little something about him from a trusted friend) and if the conversation goes well invite him somewhere you both would like to go. you will be able to judge your situation fairly well from there. i'm a total master at this hahahaha. no seriously, it works :)

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