how do u hate any thing about babies? i love babies... i want one... whos willing to help me achieve this? lol
I'm sorry and I don't mean to offend anyone, but I don't find anything cute about babies or children, nor do i ever want one.
pssh, i LOVE kids!!! i seriously could have a MILLION of them.... well.. i just mean... as far as WANTS are concerned... i dont know about the ability part... But i LOOOOOVE kids.. sooo awesome
that's awesome! I have nothing against people that want kids or have kids hehe :) being a parent is a rough jobbie and I admire people who take on that responsibility. Children are a gift ... a g...
lol, noo i agree with you... HAHA, imagine ME with kids, aww man, poor kids.. i would feel horrible for them, who would want ME as a dad.. THATS a scary thought. No, kids arent in my planned future...
They're in my planned future. Finding out that a girl didn't want kids would be an immediate relationship ender for me. In fact, I would probably try to find that out even before we started datin...
I don't know if that's a good thing. A lot of girls just don't want kids in this system. Also, to women children pose a threat to any career they want so they may not want kids in their immediate f...
I know that, and the first point you brought up I can understand. The second I cannot. I do not understand Witnesses (male or female) who actually *want* a career outside the truth. The only rea...
it's kinda hard to be a regular pioneer with a screaming infant in the car... for 8 hours a day... kinda hard! And it's hard to be able to afford daycare if only one mate works. And have you SEEN m...
I wasn't saying that she should be a regular pioneer if she were going to have kids. I was saying that I would understand if a girl didn't want to have kids so that she could pioneer. I wouldn't ...
dude..when people have babies..it's like...TAKE TURNS KEEPING THEM HOME! honestly! who wants to see your snot-nosed kid screaming during the meeting, then running around screaming after the meeting...
Not that I agree with this, but I know what you mean. There's a child in my hall that's about 4 or 5 (old enough to know how to sit still), that throws THE WORST tantrums I have ever seen or heard ...
I'm not saying that I don't believe in physical correction. I absolutely do. What I'm saying is that it *didn't* work with me. I was just as rude and obnoxious as before.
maybe it was a personality defect then. or maybe your parents ddint train you well enough?
This is true. We were talking about this in Psych today. All about Freud and his wonderful theories, of which only some of it makes sense. Maybe you are lashing out at some neglect your parents showed you as an infant, like not picking you up when you cried. OR perhaps you were pushed to hard to use the poddy and you are angry still.
My whole point here is that sometimes it is *not* the parent's fault. My parents did the best they could with this horrible little brat that they had. It was *not* *their* *fault*.
Genetically it may be!
Okay, that I'll agree with.
yo what's w/all this stuff they're finding now about how certain personality traits might be due to our genes?...brings up a BIG issue regarding accountability & whatnot....like, what if one person is directly inclined to do something that's wrong, meanwhile there's other people who are naturally inclined not to...should they both be judged by the same standard?
of course. just b/c they are more inclined to say kill people or something doesn't make it any better. everyone has control over their own actions and they have to fight inclinations they know are wrong.
yeah, i'm not saying serial killers & rapist & child molesters shouldn't be locked up or anything, lol, they should obviously have no contact w/society....twas just a passing whim
Well..in Psych we were saying how it's not exactly Personality that is in the genes, because environment can effect that BUT temperment is definetly there from birth. Like, if you're grouchy at 1..you're grouchy at 20.
but personality is partially in the genes...i'm a big fan of the 50/50 environment to genes ratio
I think that genes determine what you are inclined to be but that environment has a bigger effect on it.