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And just like that, it's over......

ophelia by ophelia · Jan 15, 2004 · 302 views · Journal

So...I just wrote the final news post on my band's website....Ophelia's basically over, at least for the time being. & I feel like I just broke up w/a girlfriend or something - so many good times w/that band. Why the breakup?...Our bassist, who none of us could get along with no matter how hard we tried, left, on his own, a while ago. So, we're like "ok lets just find another bassist"...Then, our singer starts to get all flighty, for personal reasons, & reasons we're probably not even aware of..It took us a WHILE to find him, so, his leaving would definatley hurt things, good singers are hard to find. And then, along comes this other project, a band from West Milford&Sussex, lost their singer, & guitarist, so, me & bobby start messing around w/them, and it turns out, things are going to be magnifacent - as far as that band goes anyway. Ophelia was basically an outlet for just about every type of music I listen to..Jazz, metal, rock, it was all there...And I enjoyed the music very much...From what we've heard, although people only heard us once, a lot of others enjoyed it too - & it's such an amazing feeling to have your artistic vision appreciated. Now, here I am, in a one-genre band..And, as good as it's sounding, I still wish I had another band to let the other ideas out as well..."sigh"..Whatever...This band is sounding pretty nice, i'm gonna stop complaining, lol...but..if you know or know of any open minded musicians, who like dabbling, definately let me know...

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41 Comments

rocksupastar #1 rocksupastarFounder

hey man, im looking to play some music too... we gotta hook up!

ophelia #1.1 opheliaOG 2003

yesss!!...I need a side project, this one band's just not enough, as cool as it is..only member left of ophelia beside me that's available is the drumer...so..need a bassist & singer

rocksupastar #1.1.1 rocksupastarFounder

im trying to take some singing lessons too... so im working at that as well!

thefunkyfresh #1.1.1.1 thefunkyfreshFounder

mike u should take up bass and voc's

ophelia #1.1.1.2 opheliaOG 2003

really?..have u started the singing lessons already...or u plan on it

specialk #1.1.2 specialkOG 2003

Singing is my dream job. If I weren't a Witness, I think I would have heavily pursued a career in it.

thatdarngirl #1.2 thatdarngirlOG 2002

Yeah..Mike here is the master at Mary Had a Little Lamb

rocksupastar #1.2.1 rocksupastarFounder

sit on it linz...

thatdarngirl #2 thatdarngirlOG 2002

Mmm..Who is in this new band?

ophelia #2.1 opheliaOG 2003

I haven't told u yet?..i feel like I have for some reason..but this kid named Joey from west milford - he was there when we went to that drive in theater...also, james from sussex, and, derrick from sussex,who is somehow associated w/some guy named toney who has an ezabel sn that goes something like ralphwiggumrock, and me, and bobby, who the indians refer to as "Skull of fire"..

thatdarngirl #2.1.1 thatdarngirlOG 2002

Whoah..what hall are these sussex guys in?

ophelia #2.1.1.1 opheliaOG 2003

I never asked'm..haha...wait lemme think...um...no, i was right, i don't think it's ever come up...i'll find out though

yodasucka #3 yodasuckaOG 2003

speaking of this... are u guys practicing this sat? i might come if u are.. since i ditched u last week :)

ophelia #3.1 opheliaOG 2003

yeah, we're practicing...

ophelia #4 opheliaOG 2003

I think we have a name for this other band...

A Blank Page Diary..what ya'll think?...I like it a lot

magnum #4.1 magnumOG 2001

not bad, sounds like a emo bad name though, dunno what music u play though so maybe it fits.

ophelia #4.1.1 opheliaOG 2003

yeah it's definately emo-ish, our first covers were by Thrice, Taking Back Sunday, and Senses Fail....not that our stuff sounds exacly like them, but i guess it's somewhat in that direction...everybody go listen to Saosin!..now!

skaorsk8 #4.2 skaorsk8OG 2002

hey yeah sure that name is just too short, why not call yourselves the blank page open book diary written by britney spears?

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#4.2.1 toxicgirlOG 2003

why don't you call brian and invite him over for an intimate night of mexican?

fivezero #4.2.1.1 fivezeroOG 2003

i'd indulge.

ophelia #4.2.2 opheliaOG 2003

haha, dude, it's not THAT long..it rolls off the tounge...Rage Against The Machine takes even longer to say...and nobody complains about them....but, yeah, we like it a lot, i think it's what we're using..despite your criticism!

fivezero #4.2.2.1 fivezeroOG 2003

how dare you compare yourselves to Rage Against the Machine, lol. they could have been called "ooh eeh ooh ah ah ting tang walla walla bing bang" and nobody would have had an issue.

ophelia opheliaOG 2003

it's funny you say that, they actually considered naming themselves that...

Another R.A.T.M. fact: Tom Morello & Adam Jones(of tool)grew up playing together in different bands, and basically taught eachother how to play - which might partially explain their unique & avante-garde styles

tinser #4.3 tinserOG 2002

i like that...

ophelia #4.3.1 opheliaOG 2003

i'm pleased to hear it...in fact from now on, I think we should base this band's decisions on your opinions...every idea we come up with, will be screened by you for approval...here's an idea we've just come up with, tell me what u think - we're considering implementing coreography into our performance - the drummer's uncle's best friend's accountant's dog's groomer is britney spear's corographer's former roomate's aunt...as u can see, we got connections....

tinser #4.3.1.1 tinserOG 2002

thats great, because i was going to suggest you take it in the backstreet boys direction. I've always felt that was the best way for you to go, but I always felt weird saying it. Glad we are on the same page though. So, I have another suggestion, you need theme costumes. I was thinking maybe you could all dress in jungle attire, maybe...animal print, loin cloth, furs...that type of thing.

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002

Oh that's perfect. And Byran, don't even think about going to anyone else but me to make the loin cloths..you know I'm the best in town with prices.

ophelia opheliaOG 2003

yeah, & if I throw in those coupons, i'm sure to get an even better bargain.....try to keep in mind that i'm an XXL, last l.c. you made for me was a bit on the skimpy side....

T
toxicgirlOG 2003

you don't jump off your amp with one of those on do ya?

ophelia opheliaOG 2003

well, we plan on playing in really dark venues..the lack of lighting should obscure the possible nudity

tinser tinserOG 2002

hahah, yes...but have you thought about people using flash photography? That could cause some issues...

ophelia opheliaOG 2003

you know what, I like this arrangement already!!..that idea is marvelous, i can't wait to tell the boys....bobby has a "thing" for giraffes, so I think we can even highten the jungle vibe by having him dress up as one for each gig

tinser tinserOG 2002

eXcellent, i can't wait to see the performance

omegatweeter #5 omegatweeterOG 2003

sorry to hear about your break up there. hope things go well with your new band bro. i'm hopin one day i can become an open-minded musician.

ophelia #5.1 opheliaOG 2003

it all starts w/initiative!..next comes the trip to guitar center

violetboregaurd #6 violetboregaurdOG 2003

well i can sing if you need a singer... im sorry about the passing of your band - like losing a good friend or something. My sincere sympathy.

fivezero #6.1 fivezeroOG 2003

aw, he'll be ok. he's just sad that his new band won't be as good as his old band. JK!

ophelia #6.1.1 opheliaOG 2003

haha, if by as good, u mean as diverse, than yeah..& i'm not scared that it won't be, I KNOW it won't, w/the given members, in their given roles, there's nothing else that'd come outa this band beside emo/hardcore/indie rock...

Good News: We're covering Sic Transit Glory...Glory Fades by brand new....so fun to play!!..haha, the verse to that song is so cool, a couple times we just zoned out on that begining verse w/the cool bassline over & over for like 5 minutes straight

fivezero #6.1.1.1 fivezeroOG 2003

coolio. can't wait to hear a sample.

guilderbellsuck #7 guilderbellsuckOG 2003 stupid

burn that gasoline burn burn burn

ophelia #7.1 opheliaOG 2003

what.............

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