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thatdarngirl by thatdarngirl · Jan 20, 2004 · 338 views · · · Journal

I can't sleep. Well, I can but it's not feel-good-in-the-morning sleep. It's more of a wake up constantly throughout the night sleep. And when I say constantly, I don't mean once or twice I mean five, six, eight times. It's really messing me up, especially since it's been going on for over a month now. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. Since it was taking me so long to fall asleep (like, 2 or 3 hours) I now don't go upstairs to my bed until I am ready to fall over. It's making me very grouchy and disagreeable during the day..and this morning I was so tired and confused that when I went to pour cereal I almost put water in it. As it is, I stared at the water for a while trying to determine what it was and why I didn't want it in my cereal. This no-sleep thing has also been increasing my headaches. It got so bad yesterday that my vision was going up and down, and by that I mean that things that weren't moving were. Any suggestions on how to sleep better besides taking medication for it?

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forrestina forrestinaOG 2002 ·

mel has serious problems with this and so do i. i stay up all night almost every night and want to sleep all day. i unfortunately have no good suggestions. i am useless.

fivezero fivezeroOG 2003 ·

i can totally relate to this sometimes.

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002 ·

you relate to being useless?

fivezero fivezeroOG 2003 ·

staying awake all night. sometimes i feel totally helpless to stop it.

juicymango juicymangoOG 2003 ·

Do you like natural/herbal remedies? Valerian Root supposedly works really well. ... or a glass of warm milk... more calcium in your diet... somethin like that.

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002 ·

Yeah I don't mind the herbal stuff, I just can't get addicted to Nyquil again because that was bad.

skaorsk8 skaorsk8OG 2002 ·

valian root is CRAZY GOOD. SO relaxed. amazing.

skaorsk8 skaorsk8OG 2002 ·

double post, accident. stupid submit button and making me wait

thefunkyfresh thefunkyfreshFounder ·

i know i haven't been sleeping well lately because my room is freezing! i keep waking up because my covers keep falling off and i'm too cold to sleep. i need to get a space heater

socalgal socalgalOG 2003 ·

Hmmm, how about up-ing your dosage of calcium/magnesium that's a natural relaxer, usually helps for me or read you WT or awake or some other sort of bible lit, thats always relaxing and a great way to end the day

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002 ·

So funny cause it almost sounds like "yeah, read bible literature and it'll put you right to sleep!" I actually do read my bible reading before I go to sleep.

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002 ·

Also, I have recently been getting a lot more calcium then I used too. I don't drink milk but Ive started drinking a lot of orange juice with calcium in it.

socalgal socalgalOG 2003 ·

I re-read it and it did seem like i meant it put you to sleep. LOL Hmm...well if you take orange juice the natural sugar will keep you awake. Take the herbs of calcium magnesium. If not I have a friend that will bore you to sleep, I'll give you her #....LOL

*a good game of hockey to work out frustrations and stress help out too! lol

beachbum beachbumOG 2002 ·

coral calcium is good. you need to take it a little before you go to bed though otherwise you may get tired when you don't want to. it helps me a lot

socalgal socalgalOG 2003 ·

one more thing, 5-HTP, that has a calming ingredient - tryoptophan - that'll help and it's herbs. Google 5-htp and it'll give you the low down =)

malibu malibuOG 2001 ·

i thought orange juice gave you vitamin c, not calcium. i drink tons of orange juice and i thought i was gettin vitamin c.

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002 ·

I drink Calcium and Viatim D enriched orange juice.

ilikebirds ilikebirdsOG 2002 ·

Yea i dont sleep well either... i see it as my body saying " hey guy guy it's only 12am.. get your butt up and do something.. " so.. thats what you do. get up and do something until your tired. you're young. sleep is for quitters. it's like " look at me look at me i'm awake, alive.. having a good times.. but i want to quit this.. and sleep "... soo dont sleep

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classic1OG 2004 ·

Celestial Seasoning "Sleepy Time" tea, 20 to 40 drops of Valerian Root, goodnight

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002 ·

I'm definetly going to have to try this stuff.

fivezero fivezeroOG 2003 ·

and THREE tylenol PMs *jk*

punkprincess punkprincessOG 2001 ·

NYQUIL!

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002 ·

I used to take that stuff like it was candy. Then it stopped being as affective.

ophelia opheliaOG 2003 ·

NYQUIL ADDICTS UNITE!!..high five

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002 ·

Is there any specific brand of Valerian Root that everyone likes?

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classic1OG 2004 ·

It can be expensive stuff. Just visit your local heath food store and pick up a bottle w/ that type of top that can administer droplets.

ps: Please stop using that Ny-quil. Continued use is totally unhealty. It's like doing asprin theraphy with Tylenol, not good at all...

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002 ·

Yeah..I haven't used Nyquil in a while, unless I get really sick. It took me a long time to go back to sleeping normal the last time I got hooked to it.

skaorsk8 skaorsk8OG 2002 ·

i use nature's sunshine, they have one with Hops, Valarian Root, and Skullcap.

hops is...ingredient in...umm...never mind

yodasucka yodasuckaOG 2003 ·

i've been on sleeping pills for most of my life... i started taking them at age 12 but now i can't sleep without them which is pretty bad.. but before my doctor put me on them, i tried a buncha stuff... try buying one of those noise machines (unless you are a person who needs complete quiet), or buy a sleeping mask thing (unless you like light), also try NOT going to lay down unless you feel tired, cuz if ur just laying there awake, it gets worse, uh... u could try reading a boring book... that usually put me to sleep...

juicymango juicymangoOG 2003 ·

wow sounds almost like you guys are wired to be up all nite and sleep all day... hmm sounds like you shoulda gone to Vegas with Ty! hahah

no seriously tho maybe a night job would be good for you, then you can sleep during the day.

yodasucka yodasuckaOG 2003 ·

not really, i don't usually sleep durning the day either... i just don't need that much sleep i think... i have better things to do with my time then sleep haha

juicymango juicymangoOG 2003 ·

yeah, this is gonna sound stupid but i really wish there was just a pill we could take that would be enough to "energize" and renew our bodies. I wish we didn't have to sleep. It's SUCH a waste of perfectly good hours of life!!!!! Seriusly. And also eating, i wish there was an option for like getting an injection or a pill and be full. Eating is soooo time consuming and expensive.

However, I love sleeping and eating.. haha

ilikebirds ilikebirdsOG 2002 ·

yup thats the wisest thing anyone has ever said.. night time is not for sleep.. night time is part of life.. how much does it suck that for most people.. all their life is in the LIGHT... stay away from the light... it means your dying.. go into the darkness

juicymango juicymangoOG 2003 ·

yes I have felt this way for a long time. I have so often heard "but... it's three o'clock in the morning!!" and my answer to that is... "YES THE NIGHT IS YOUNG!!"

ilikebirds ilikebirdsOG 2002 stupid ·

3am should be everyones 10pm. and by 10pm i mean wooot woot sex

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002 ·

you always sleep like a rock when you're with me tho. i think you need to feel secure.

yodasucka yodasuckaOG 2003 ·

or we just stay out till 3 am so i have no choice but be tired haha

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002 ·

shhhh you'll get me in trouble with the authorities

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dgiaimoOG 2003 ·

I can't sleep unless I have the fan blasting and my room is really cold. During the winter my mom and dad insist that I have the door closed since they don't want me cooling off the rest of the house.

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002 ·

I totally need my room to be freezing to go to sleep too, it helps me breathe better.

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dgiaimoOG 2003 ·

Exactly! Of course, I end up having to have, like, four blankets on me so that I don't freeze to death, but it's definitely easier to breathe the cold air.

magnum magnumOG 2001 ·

hrm i could fall asleep at 8pm every night, heck most weeknights i do... this job is killin me :/

ophelia opheliaOG 2003 ·

Listen to kenny g..His music is SOO insanely sleep inducing, it's like a sonic-sleeping pill, seriously....& every song sounds exacly the same...if that don't work..I'll let u borrow my fountain, it's really cool, it has a green orb in the middle of it that floats on these jets of water that make it spin - & it has these pretty marble rocks on it..it'll bring the sounds of nature into your room, it sounds like a mini waterfall..that, along w/kenny's elevator music, should put u to sleep in no time

malibu malibuOG 2001 ·

or enya. proven to be one of the most effective tools to fall asleep to.

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002 ·

Problem is I can't have music or noise other then my air condition or air cleaner in the room. It bothers me. I'm a very picky sleeper.

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betsyOG 2004 ·

Someone told me that you're not supposed to use your computer before bedtime cuz the light messes up the chemicals in your brain that let you get sleepy... I know it hasta be more technical of an explanation than that, but in plain terms, there it is....

magnum magnumOG 2001 ·

they must have been on crack because thats the dumbest thing i have ever heard

thefunkyfresh thefunkyfreshFounder ·

yeah, maybe they couldn't sleep because they were on crack

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toxicgirlOG 2003 ·

interesting hypothesis professor

ophelia opheliaOG 2003 ·

that's funny..crack puts me to sleep

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002 ·

Yeah..I'm not too sure about that one. Ever since we got the internet I've used it before I went to sleep (originally because my older sister would play computer commando at all earlier times).

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haha_hehe_1OG 2004 ·

I suggest exersizing or moving a lot before sleeping. Then you'll be exhusted and want to sleep. XD I had the same problem, actually. I have to take 50 MGs Diphenhydramine and that just makes me dizzy. Moving a lot helps a lot though. It's always best to go all natural =)

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