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thatdarngirl by thatdarngirl · Jan 20, 2004 · 321 views · Journal

I can't sleep. Well, I can but it's not feel-good-in-the-morning sleep. It's more of a wake up constantly throughout the night sleep. And when I say constantly, I don't mean once or twice I mean five, six, eight times. It's really messing me up, especially since it's been going on for over a month now. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. Since it was taking me so long to fall asleep (like, 2 or 3 hours) I now don't go upstairs to my bed until I am ready to fall over. It's making me very grouchy and disagreeable during the day..and this morning I was so tired and confused that when I went to pour cereal I almost put water in it. As it is, I stared at the water for a while trying to determine what it was and why I didn't want it in my cereal. This no-sleep thing has also been increasing my headaches. It got so bad yesterday that my vision was going up and down, and by that I mean that things that weren't moving were. Any suggestions on how to sleep better besides taking medication for it?

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forrestina #1 forrestinaOG 2002

mel has serious problems with this and so do i. i stay up all night almost every night and want to sleep all day. i unfortunately have no good suggestions. i am useless.

fivezero #1.1 fivezeroOG 2003

i can totally relate to this sometimes.

forrestina #1.1.1 forrestinaOG 2002

you relate to being useless?

fivezero #1.1.1.1 fivezeroOG 2003

staying awake all night. sometimes i feel totally helpless to stop it.

juicymango #2 juicymangoOG 2003

Do you like natural/herbal remedies? Valerian Root supposedly works really well. ... or a glass of warm milk... more calcium in your diet... somethin like that.

thatdarngirl #2.1 thatdarngirlOG 2002

Yeah I don't mind the herbal stuff, I just can't get addicted to Nyquil again because that was bad.

skaorsk8 #2.2 skaorsk8OG 2002

valian root is CRAZY GOOD. SO relaxed. amazing.

skaorsk8 #2.3 skaorsk8OG 2002

double post, accident. stupid submit button and making me wait

thefunkyfresh #3 thefunkyfreshFounder

i know i haven't been sleeping well lately because my room is freezing! i keep waking up because my covers keep falling off and i'm too cold to sleep. i need to get a space heater

socalgal #4 socalgalOG 2003

Hmmm, how about up-ing your dosage of calcium/magnesium that's a natural relaxer, usually helps for me or read you WT or awake or some other sort of bible lit, thats always relaxing and a great way to end the day

thatdarngirl #4.1 thatdarngirlOG 2002

So funny cause it almost sounds like "yeah, read bible literature and it'll put you right to sleep!" I actually do read my bible reading before I go to sleep.

thatdarngirl #4.2 thatdarngirlOG 2002

Also, I have recently been getting a lot more calcium then I used too. I don't drink milk but Ive started drinking a lot of orange juice with calcium in it.

socalgal #4.2.1 socalgalOG 2003

I re-read it and it did seem like i meant it put you to sleep. LOL Hmm...well if you take orange juice the natural sugar will keep you awake. Take the herbs of calcium magnesium. If not I have a friend that will bore you to sleep, I'll give you her #....LOL

*a good game of hockey to work out frustrations and stress help out too! lol

beachbum #4.2.2 beachbumOG 2002

coral calcium is good. you need to take it a little before you go to bed though otherwise you may get tired when you don't want to. it helps me a lot

socalgal #4.2.3 socalgalOG 2003

one more thing, 5-HTP, that has a calming ingredient - tryoptophan - that'll help and it's herbs. Google 5-htp and it'll give you the low down =)

malibu #4.2.4 malibuOG 2001

i thought orange juice gave you vitamin c, not calcium. i drink tons of orange juice and i thought i was gettin vitamin c.

thatdarngirl #4.2.4.1 thatdarngirlOG 2002

I drink Calcium and Viatim D enriched orange juice.

ilikebirds #5 ilikebirdsOG 2002

Yea i dont sleep well either... i see it as my body saying " hey guy guy it's only 12am.. get your butt up and do something.. " so.. thats what you do. get up and do something until your tired. you're young. sleep is for quitters. it's like " look at me look at me i'm awake, alive.. having a good times.. but i want to quit this.. and sleep "... soo dont sleep

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#6 classic1OG 2004

Celestial Seasoning "Sleepy Time" tea, 20 to 40 drops of Valerian Root, goodnight

thatdarngirl #6.1 thatdarngirlOG 2002

I'm definetly going to have to try this stuff.

fivezero #6.1.1 fivezeroOG 2003

and THREE tylenol PMs *jk*

punkprincess #6.1.2 punkprincessOG 2001

NYQUIL!

thatdarngirl #6.1.2.1 thatdarngirlOG 2002

I used to take that stuff like it was candy. Then it stopped being as affective.

ophelia opheliaOG 2003

NYQUIL ADDICTS UNITE!!..high five

thatdarngirl #6.2 thatdarngirlOG 2002

Is there any specific brand of Valerian Root that everyone likes?

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#6.2.1 classic1OG 2004

It can be expensive stuff. Just visit your local heath food store and pick up a bottle w/ that type of top that can administer droplets.

ps: Please stop using that Ny-quil. Continued use is totally unhealty. It's like doing asprin theraphy with Tylenol, not good at all...

thatdarngirl #6.2.1.1 thatdarngirlOG 2002

Yeah..I haven't used Nyquil in a while, unless I get really sick. It took me a long time to go back to sleeping normal the last time I got hooked to it.

skaorsk8 #6.2.2 skaorsk8OG 2002

i use nature's sunshine, they have one with Hops, Valarian Root, and Skullcap.

hops is...ingredient in...umm...never mind

yodasucka #7 yodasuckaOG 2003

i've been on sleeping pills for most of my life... i started taking them at age 12 but now i can't sleep without them which is pretty bad.. but before my doctor put me on them, i tried a buncha stuff... try buying one of those noise machines (unless you are a person who needs complete quiet), or buy a sleeping mask thing (unless you like light), also try NOT going to lay down unless you feel tired, cuz if ur just laying there awake, it gets worse, uh... u could try reading a boring book... that usually put me to sleep...

juicymango #7.1 juicymangoOG 2003

wow sounds almost like you guys are wired to be up all nite and sleep all day... hmm sounds like you shoulda gone to Vegas with Ty! hahah

no seriously tho maybe a night job would be good for you, then you can sleep during the day.

yodasucka #7.1.1 yodasuckaOG 2003

not really, i don't usually sleep durning the day either... i just don't need that much sleep i think... i have better things to do with my time then sleep haha

juicymango #7.1.1.1 juicymangoOG 2003

yeah, this is gonna sound stupid but i really wish there was just a pill we could take that would be enough to "energize" and renew our bodies. I wish we didn't have to sleep. It's SUCH a waste of perfectly good hours of life!!!!! Seriusly. And also eating, i wish there was an option for like getting an injection or a pill and be full. Eating is soooo time consuming and expensive.

However, I love sleeping and eating.. haha

ilikebirds ilikebirdsOG 2002

yup thats the wisest thing anyone has ever said.. night time is not for sleep.. night time is part of life.. how much does it suck that for most people.. all their life is in the LIGHT... stay away from the light... it means your dying.. go into the darkness

juicymango juicymangoOG 2003

yes I have felt this way for a long time. I have so often heard "but... it's three o'clock in the morning!!" and my answer to that is... "YES THE NIGHT IS YOUNG!!"

ilikebirds ilikebirdsOG 2002 stupid

3am should be everyones 10pm. and by 10pm i mean wooot woot sex

forrestina #7.2 forrestinaOG 2002

you always sleep like a rock when you're with me tho. i think you need to feel secure.

yodasucka #7.2.1 yodasuckaOG 2003

or we just stay out till 3 am so i have no choice but be tired haha

forrestina #7.2.1.1 forrestinaOG 2002

shhhh you'll get me in trouble with the authorities

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#8 dgiaimoOG 2003

I can't sleep unless I have the fan blasting and my room is really cold. During the winter my mom and dad insist that I have the door closed since they don't want me cooling off the rest of the house.

thatdarngirl #8.1 thatdarngirlOG 2002

I totally need my room to be freezing to go to sleep too, it helps me breathe better.

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#8.1.1 dgiaimoOG 2003

Exactly! Of course, I end up having to have, like, four blankets on me so that I don't freeze to death, but it's definitely easier to breathe the cold air.

magnum #9 magnumOG 2001

hrm i could fall asleep at 8pm every night, heck most weeknights i do... this job is killin me :/

ophelia #10 opheliaOG 2003

Listen to kenny g..His music is SOO insanely sleep inducing, it's like a sonic-sleeping pill, seriously....& every song sounds exacly the same...if that don't work..I'll let u borrow my fountain, it's really cool, it has a green orb in the middle of it that floats on these jets of water that make it spin - & it has these pretty marble rocks on it..it'll bring the sounds of nature into your room, it sounds like a mini waterfall..that, along w/kenny's elevator music, should put u to sleep in no time

malibu #10.1 malibuOG 2001

or enya. proven to be one of the most effective tools to fall asleep to.

thatdarngirl #10.2 thatdarngirlOG 2002

Problem is I can't have music or noise other then my air condition or air cleaner in the room. It bothers me. I'm a very picky sleeper.

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#11 betsyOG 2004

Someone told me that you're not supposed to use your computer before bedtime cuz the light messes up the chemicals in your brain that let you get sleepy... I know it hasta be more technical of an explanation than that, but in plain terms, there it is....

magnum #11.1 magnumOG 2001

they must have been on crack because thats the dumbest thing i have ever heard

thefunkyfresh #11.1.1 thefunkyfreshFounder

yeah, maybe they couldn't sleep because they were on crack

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#11.1.1.1 toxicgirlOG 2003

interesting hypothesis professor

ophelia #11.1.1.2 opheliaOG 2003

that's funny..crack puts me to sleep

thatdarngirl #11.2 thatdarngirlOG 2002

Yeah..I'm not too sure about that one. Ever since we got the internet I've used it before I went to sleep (originally because my older sister would play computer commando at all earlier times).

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#12 haha_hehe_1OG 2004

I suggest exersizing or moving a lot before sleeping. Then you'll be exhusted and want to sleep. XD I had the same problem, actually. I have to take 50 MGs Diphenhydramine and that just makes me dizzy. Moving a lot helps a lot though. It's always best to go all natural =)

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