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ophelia Feb 9, 2004

haha, what inspired this thread?..are you trying to figure out whether you're in love or not, by looking @ our definitions of it, and comparing how you feel to them? w/that being asked, i think....

thatdarngirl Feb 10, 2004

No..that's silly. My friend and I were just discussing and came to the conclusion that all those romantic fairy-tale stories that we both love so much are just not realistic. We think they give peo...

ophelia Feb 10, 2004

well, yeah, but we go to see these movies as an escape from reality...no, none of us will end up riding into any sunset w/our lover on a white horse, or saving her from vampire ninjas, and making o...

thatdarngirl Feb 11, 2004

But I don't just mean scenarios. I mean like the always having butterflies in your stomach or seeing fireworks when you kiss. For the former, chances are you have some nervous disability and for t...

modestjesse modestjesseOG 2004

I miss the butterflies.

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002

I don't, they make me sick. Like..it's a nice thing but I think that falls more under a 'crush' then love. You can still get butterflies but I totally prefer just super-happiness when seeing your other or just like..a nice warm-on-the-inside feeling. Something like that.

modestjesse modestjesseOG 2004

I remember getting voicemails from my wife and getting butterflies while listening to them. Either the way she said something or what she said would triger them. And this was after 4 or 5 years of marriage.

tinser tinserOG 2002

ah, good feelings

ophelia opheliaOG 2003

are you thinking back to the voicemails your wife left you too?

tinser tinserOG 2002

yeah, she's such a sweetie!

specialk specialkOG 2003

That's the way it should be. I think it's awesome if you can feel the same way that you did about your significant other when you first started dating, even after years of marriage. I SO hope I still get those butterflies after me and my hubby have been married 50 years.

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