try having a d/f kid. so many of the kids she grew up with are d/f too.

ok, listen, can you show empathy instead of turning it to you and your family? I'm not hating on you, or beating you up, but when someone's having a rough week, it's not kind to say "you think THAT...

yea, that is a good point, **DISCLAIMER** I AM NOT TRYING TO DISRESPECT YOU STARSHIP** but yea, i think that lauren is going through some hard times, the least all of us can do is try to offer supp...

haha i have no starship. i do feel bad. i've been d/f. i know what it does to the family.

did you even read dan's comment? he brought up a good point for us all to work on.

i felt her pain right away. just b/c i reacted the way i did SHOWS empathy cause i know the pain a d/f loved one or friend causes. excuse me for being human.

"try having a d/fed kid" means...."you aren't that bad off. Try having a d/fed kid". it's ok to admit you came across inappropriately. part of being human. and adult.

i didnt mean TRY having one.....i meant its hard on a woman who has carried that baby inside herself, vowing to have her serve Jah, then her turning 360 (or is it 180) and becoming pretty much not...

Yeah, it was rough on my mom, she couldn't even go to the meeting the night it was announced. This is the third time one of her kids has been DF'd. I was the first. I think my family is just cursed...

yeah i didnt either.

I was there when they announced it for me, and he was there when they announced it for him. That was rough, especially last week cause I don't think ANYONE suspected it. Shoot, I was blown away whe...

that has got to be the hardest thing to sit through (for yourself).