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starshiptrooper Feb 12, 2004

try having a d/f kid. so many of the kids she grew up with are d/f too.

skaorsk8 Feb 12, 2004

ok, listen, can you show empathy instead of turning it to you and your family? I'm not hating on you, or beating you up, but when someone's having a rough week, it's not kind to say "you think THAT...

rocksupastar Feb 12, 2004

yea, that is a good point, **DISCLAIMER** I AM NOT TRYING TO DISRESPECT YOU STARSHIP** but yea, i think that lauren is going through some hard times, the least all of us can do is try to offer supp...

starshiptrooper Feb 12, 2004

haha i have no starship. i do feel bad. i've been d/f. i know what it does to the family.

forrestina Feb 13, 2004

did you even read dan's comment? he brought up a good point for us all to work on.

starshiptrooper Feb 13, 2004

i felt her pain right away. just b/c i reacted the way i did SHOWS empathy cause i know the pain a d/f loved one or friend causes. excuse me for being human.

thefunkyfresh Feb 13, 2004

did you guys know that sympathy and empathy are actually 2 different things? Points to whoever can explain the diff without consulting dictionary.com

skaorsk8 Feb 13, 2004

sympathy is feeling bad for someone for a reason empathy is actually taking on those feelings, and sharing their pain. i know, i had the instruction talk on this a couple of weeks ago.

thefunkyfresh Feb 13, 2004

u got it backwards dude. nice job misleading the congregation.

skaorsk8 Feb 13, 2004

ohhh...wrong again mr. kelly...

thefunkyfresh Feb 13, 2004

em·pa·thy ( P ) Pronunciation Key (mp-th) n. Identification with and understanding of another's situation, feelings, and motives. See sym·pa·thy ( P ) Pronunciation Key (smp-th) n...

skaorsk8 Feb 13, 2004

yeah, that's not really the right way to express it though. if your cat died, and i tell you "i'm sorry - that really sucks" - that's sympathy. i feel bad for you. but if your cat died, and i...

socalgal Feb 13, 2004

Dans right....sorry funky...wasn't there an article in the WT on this a while back?

violetboregaurd violetboregaurdOG 2003

yeah there was one about three years ago - questions from readers im thinking.

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