I was in my late teens. I saw her at a congregation picnic. When I saw and spoke to her, I felt someting that I never felt before. I had no game, just corney conversation. I left the picnic without...
no, i mean your comments shot fire at me. You sounded like "What you did was awfull, How could you? I would never do such a thing"!
Interesting. That's not what I meant. I think it's great that you had the guts to do that, and to be able to ignore the possible consequences. I don't and can't.
Now that i'm older, I couldn't or wouldn't use spirtual or organizational stuff for my own pesonal benefit. I'm sure it's a ton of stuff that we all did in the past that we wouldn't do now. I agree with you.
Yeah. Actually what I'd be most concerned about is what other people would think about me calling a girl that I barely knew. I do not want to get the reputation that my brother had.
well how do you get to know a sister that you barely know? you need to call her right?
That's a very good point and one that I've been trying to understand for a while now.
what don't you understand hun? if you're attracted to one, you need to call and get to know them. now you only get a rep if you move from one person to the other without allowing sufficient time....
What I don't understand is what is considered appropriate and what is not.
Don't touch her no-no places and everything should be all right.
you're so cute lynz!
different people have different no no spots though.....like personally...i'm 100% yes yes....i don't think i have any no no's...
Appropriate: call her if your interested and take it from there. It just all flows naturally...
In-appropriate: coming on too strong, jsut be yourself
Haha. Sorry, but if you knew me you'd know that *nothing* having to do with conversation just flows naturally with me. Oh well, I should stop talking about this subject. I'm getting depressed enough as it is.
dont sweat it man, i'm in the same boat as u. never was really natural at that kind of stuff. like talking to girls and such. except i just dont care anymore! yipeeeeeeeeeeee!!! seriously though, its so much smarter to just chill, be friends with everybody, eventually everything will fall into place. right? RIGHT!??!?!?????
definitely true
Thanks for the clarification.
aw hun, i didn't take it that way....it was sweet the way you did it and i think he meant that it wouldn't have worked for him (even though maybe it could)