Hmm this is what I think, i don't know if it's right. Sometimes a person can be "perfect" for you in the reasoning sense, they might have the right personality, spiritual qualities, and financial s...

So true, looking back now I see I got married for all the wrong reasons, and they were selfish ones. Yes, I was madly in love, but I saw a lot of negative things that I thought she'd 'grow out of' ...

thinking people will change is the biggest faux paus ever

or that you can change them....total no-no